Hmmm
Living with a PA is painful, and since you are happier without him, i'd just
take the next step. but i see his mopping as an effort, and i hate to turn away
from effort. I would get your financial house in order, just in case.
hope this helps.
jen

faolan4me <faolan4me@...> wrote:
Good Evening Listmates!

After almost 13 yrs of marriage in a downward spiraling path with a PA
hb, Ive left him, but during the week only. I must be back at the
*old* home/situation due to the business we own together. Together
means on legal documents, I own half the business, do way more than
half the work, but of course I have no access to finacialbank account
info!

I've been telling him for 2 yrs. that I would leave IF he
didn't....(fill in the blank), he didn't, so I did.

This new living situation for me has been going on for about 2 months.
I told him I would rather be lonley and and alone, than miserable and
alone with him.

He calls me tonight and tells me he is mopping the living room floor
so I can come home. He just doesn't get it. The living room floor has
NOTHING to do with why I left. I left because I can't stand the pain
anymore, the yrs. of cold shoulder/silent treatment, lack of
communication, lack of affection, him always seeing the cup half
empty, never ever seeing my point of view and even if he does it's not
as good as his.

I'm feeling better than I have in yrs. I don't want to go back, at
least not at this time cuz I know nothing has really changed. He
mopped a *@%^?&% floor, that's all he thinks the problem is???

Any feedback from you is greatly appreciated....

Britt aka faolan4me






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