Hello all,
I have to admit, I have done some crazy, and strange things, that
aren't like me in the last few relationships I have had. My partners
were chronic liars, and cheaters, and passive agressive and
controlling. The last said I push and he caves. In other words I was
assertive, and stood up for myself. I have let go of him completely
now, our last meeting was just another session of mixed messages. He
apologizes the next day when I ask him to clearify for me, and this is
when he says, I push and he caves and........... get
this...............he says, this is not healthy for me.
The man admitted he was passive agressive the night before. Passing
the blame on me. It is not healthy for HIM?????????????????????
I think he needs to study what it is. I just can not believe the
effect this man has had on me. The short time I knew him, is still
hanging on me like a ghost. I can not stop the thoughts about it from
going around and around and around my head. I am filled with
depression and anger. How the heck do I get out of this trance???????