Hello all I am new. I read through the posts and saw that some folks
maybe looking for info. I came across a link below that has different
sites listed. I joined looking for info on passive aggressive
disorder because I beleive a family member acts like this. I am not
entirely sure because I beleive alcohol plays a big role here too.
Not sure which came first. The one viewpoint this person has that my
husband and I have said just isnt acceptable is the "I dont like
confrontation" this is usually voiced by this person after they have
knowingly done something to pi-- us off. Its like slapping someone
and then running and hiding because they dont want any one to know or
be pointed out for bad behavior. The last incident was indeed the
last incident..it was a stunt pulled with our child. We didnt speak
to this person for a few days while we calmed down. I am not one to
mince words. Instead we get a note saying that we behaved badly and
that this person deserves an apology....on the planet Vodka maybe. At
any rate..there is a long history of manipulation and mean ness
here...so in looking into what I can...it seems that p/a seems to
fit..any thoughts? Deb


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