Jennifer,

This is amazing, what you describe about your husband fits so closely
to that of my wife, including the problems she has with her dad and
brother siblings! Especially where you describe "...is the coldest,
most emotionally unavailable, most self centered person who is in
constant denial and avoids taking responsibility for ANY of her
actions. My wife has always had issues with her father and her
brothers too...

I wonder if there is a pattern here?

Bruce

--- In passiveaggressivesupport@yahoogroups.com, "Jennifer K.
Gleinser" <jgleinser@y...> wrote:
> I don't know if this is an active group or not..but I am in dire
need for
> some support. Me and my 3 year old daughter have somehow wound up
in a HELL
> HOLE. My fiance was great in the beginning, but then he unzipped
his
> costume and stepped out..and now he is the coldest, most emotionally
> unavailable, most self centered person who is in constant denial
and avoids
> taking responsibility for ANY of his actions. I am so miserable
and am on
> the verge of either a total break-down..or just moving out
altogether. I
> hate who I've become since he started acting this way..and I feel
nothing
> but hostility and resentment in this house...no love except between
me and
> my daughter. Rick has a father (they hate each other) with PA and
Rick's
> older son (his sons live here) also has PA...and I walked right
into this.
> I feel so stupid. What a mess. Any advice??
>
>
>
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