You ask good questions. According to your account
of this man's background, he has some very serious
issues to work on and that means you do too. This is
essential or your marriage is doomed before it begins. I
suggest that you both seek some professional assistance
with regard to his intimacy issues (he likely has an
attachment disorder). Marrying him w/o counseling from a
competent therapist is emotional suicide on your part and
it won't be a picnic for him either.<br><br>Please
don't delude yourself into thinking that your love for
him will "cure" him. It won't.<br><br>I wish you both
the best of luck.