Hi, Am curious to hear from people who have had to set ultimatums with
spouses due to physical/verbal abuse? My husband is at risk, age 42.
(Mom's onset was about mid 40s.) He's been becoming increasinly angry
and has had a few physical incidents with myself (mostly grabbing,
pushing, nothing causing serious injury although I did have a bruise.
Aggressively grabbed our 5 yr. old daughter - causing her to wet her
pants and tell her grammie that "daddy hurt her." ) Am now separating,
consulting an attorney, etc. He's in the state we live in and I'm
almost 2,000 miles away visiting my mom. Thanks. (I wrote a longer
post on the HDAC site under "Husband" I told him he must see
nuerologist for us to even consider reconciliation.