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Dear Colleen,
My name is Dori, Huntington's disease is in my family
too, my grandfather and my great-uncle died of HD, and when my I was 8 yrs old
my mom died of HD. I have 5 sisters and 1 brother, 4 of my sister have HD and
all are in nursing homes, their in the last stages of HD. my brother refuses to
get tested, I have been tested and I don't have the disease. I have 7 neices and
nephews at risk of getting HD. My only sister that doesn't have HD, has a
different mother, in other words shes my half sister. How old is your mom? how
is she doing? how old are you and your brothers and sisters? I want you to know
if you need someone to talk to you can call me collect 24/7 at 240-383-0710 or
301-260-0710. I'm 40 now, and I have a son who is 14 yrs old. Im so thankful to
know he will never get this horrible disease. When you don't have the bad gene
you can't pass it on. All families with HD in it are in someway all related.
Well, I just wanted you to know your not alone, there
are people out there that care about you, and what to be your friend. Take
care, and know you and your familys are always in my prayers. Your friend
always, dori

Colleen Hutt <carebear22_00@...> wrote:
Hi everyone,
I am new here and i am a little confused on how this works. I basically recieve
an email every time you all reply to eachother. Is there a chat room? Or is this
all?
Also, my mother has H.D. and myself, brother, and sister have not been tested
and choose not too at this time. I guess we are holding on to any little shred
of hope that we dont have it. I am curious though how close we are to finding a
cure, if anyone has said when they approximatly think there will be one. Is
there anything we can do to help, such as fund raisers? I am not sure how to
even organize something like that, but i feel i have to try to do something,
this is just a crazy disease that has ruined our lives. I want to keep faith
that they will find something soon.
Also my question to everyone: Do you feel torn about how to go on with your
lives right now? I am only 25 and recently married, I am trying to have a normal
life as possible and not let this whole thing get me down. My Mom will be coming
back out to Denver to live in assisted living next month and i know i will feel
that burden of always going to pick her up and do everything. I am not trying to
sound selfish, its just that i guess i feel some resentment that she can not act
like my mother and that i have to be the Mom. If you all know what i mean. I
just feel ripped off. Just wondering if any of you feel the same??

Also i always have this nagging voice in the back of my head that i could very
well have this and it gets me down, so i want to try and live as normal as
possible right now, which is hard to do considering. I also tend to beat myself
up when i forget things and blame it on H.D. My father trys to tell me that
everyone forgets things and it doesnt mean anything. I know i am babbeling right
now, but i was just curious if anyone feels the same?

I have read all of your stories and it scares the hell out of me and whats to
become of my future, but you are all brave and very strong people whether you
realize it or not

Thanks for the support

Colleen

shabs96@... wrote:
hey vivki,
I know the feeling. My uncle acts the same way. Ever since my father, his
younger brother, was put into a nursing home, my uncle has been drinking
non-stop. I haven't seen him sober in over 3 years now. Though my uncle was
never
tested, I can see the signs of HD in his movements, and I believe that is why he
drinks so much. Perhaps he sees it too but is too afraid of knowing the truth.
HD took my father's life this past june, and since then, the family has net
been the same. I too am at risk and have no yet been tested...I have an
appointment in September to meet with the Huntington's doctor. I know your pain.
Good
luck, and no matter what, keep on smiling. -Shannon


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Ive just Had The news that My Brothr Has Not Got Long to g oand im disopointed in the fact that theres nothing out there to help viki...
viki01cr
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Aug 4, 2003
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Viki- Sorry to hear the news about your brother. I do feel your pain. This disease sucks. Everyday I pray for a cure. -Beth...
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Aug 4, 2003
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Beth, I think the thing that worrys me the most is that i have t worry about weather i have the disease but seeing my brothers the way they are just makes me...
viki roberts
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Aug 5, 2003
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hey vivki, I know the feeling. My uncle acts the same way. Ever since my father, his younger brother, was put into a nursing home, my uncle has been drinking ...
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Aug 6, 2003
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Hi everyone, I am new here and i am a little confused on how this works. I basically recieve an email every time you all reply to eachother. Is there a chat...
Colleen Hutt
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Aug 6, 2003
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Dear Colleen, My name is Dori, Huntington's disease is in my family too, my grandfather and my great-uncle died of HD, and when my I was 8 yrs old my mom died...
dori derricotte
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Aug 7, 2003
1:11 am

Wow, Thank you all so much for your responses, you all are so understanding and open. That really means alot. The only people i can talk to about all this are...
Colleen Hutt
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Aug 7, 2003
4:47 am

Hi Colleen I have just read your e-mail with interest, you say that you want children but won't have any in case you do have H D and do not want to pass it on....
mitchpalm@...
helpathand1
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Aug 7, 2003
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Cuold i just say that even when your clear of HD you could always be a carrier of the disease so if children r on the books there is a test to check the baby...
viki roberts
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Aug 7, 2003
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Viki, if you get the test that tells you if you have the bad gene or not...if the test say you don't have the bad gene, you can never pass it on. What kind of...
dori derricotte
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Aug 7, 2003
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Hi Colleen Its Viki, wat can i say my mum had the disease and died at the age of 41 very young i know my only 2 brothers bothe have the disease and im scared...
viki roberts
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Aug 7, 2003
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Dear Colleen, I don't know of any family that the mother or father had HD and non of the children didn't get HD, Its a 50% chance thats pretty high, but...
dori derricotte
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Aug 7, 2003
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Colleen, Dori mentioned that she does not know any family where the mother or father had HD and the children did not get it. I am living proof. My mother has...
Patti LaMarche
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Aug 7, 2003
5:26 pm

Wow Pattie, That is awesome, i am so happy for you and your brother. You are so lucky!! You are proof that miracles happen. Thanks for that. Colleen Patti...
Colleen Hutt
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Aug 7, 2003
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Dear Pattie, you misunderstood what i said, I said I don't know of any families that the mother or father had HD, and NONE of the children didn't get HD, I...
dori derricotte
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Aug 8, 2003
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Dori, I did understand what you meant and the reason I wrote back was because my mother does have HD, she had 2 children, myself and my brother. We were both...
Patti LaMarche
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Aug 8, 2003
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Hi Patti wat i believe dori means is that both parents have HD but none of the children do i think thats wat she was trying to say. viki Patti LaMarche...
viki roberts
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Aug 8, 2003
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Patti, you are still misunderstanding me, What I was telling Colleen was I personally didn't know of a family that the mother or father had HD, and ALL THE...
dori derricotte
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Aug 8, 2003
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Hey Collenn, I understand how you'd be hesitant about allowing your mother to move in. Taking care of a HD patient is very trying. My dad started showing signs...
shabs96@...
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Aug 10, 2003
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Hey Vicki, You CANNOT be a carrier with HD. You either have the disease or you don't. There is no passing of the genes if you yourself are not affected. The...
shabs96@...
monkeybear83
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Aug 10, 2003
6:32 am

Hey Dori, I'm not sure if that's possible. I haven't been in biology in a while, but i can try and do the chart to figure it out. Either way, I go for my test...
shabs96@...
monkeybear83
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Aug 10, 2003
6:41 am

Hi Colleen, I am new at this group experience also - we can sort of learn things together. I am 32 years old and have in the past couple of months learned at...
Lisa Sweigart
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Aug 7, 2003
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Hi Colleen, You will find that these sites have a hugs impact on your life and the way you live it. Before I found this family of friends, I felt so alone and ...
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