As I reflect on the past 2 1/2 years with my son Henry and all that my
family has learned and experienced since he has joined our
family...well, I would like to raise my imaginary glass of Champagne to
all of my fellow sisters and brothers who continue on in spite of the
heartache and uncertainty. I would like to believe that the lesson in
all of this 'not-knowing' is in the discovery of what is truly
important...the smiles, laughs, and embraces that we are lucky enough
to share with our little ones. As for me, I can honestly say that the
past few years have brought a clarity to the joys I experience that I
never fully appreciated prior. I wish we all had more time to chat and
share information...but the fact is, we are all probably busy just
hanging in there. In closing, I am proud to be among such a strong and
loving group of parents. This course we are on is by far more
complicated and difficult than most, but with such beautiful views from
time to time. My best to all of you. -Madeline (mom of Henry age 2 1/2
in Eugene, Oregon)