Hey Rich, You say, "the worst thing about affairs is the duplicity." It is also the best thing about it. It is the thrill of it, living on the edge so to...
... I know that's the traditional party line, but I'm not sure I agree. Commonly, the man who cheats is assumed to be lacking in sex, and the woman who cheats...
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You are right on, Whistler, when you say, "But what if the marriage is good, and the invidual is fucked up? What if he or she has happiness anxiety? Or fear of...
Marcy, "You keep your original job while you look, but when the get a new offer, you leave the old one." But a lover is not a job, Marcy. Don't you feel like...
Turkey has 40,000 troops on the Turko-Iraqi frontier (and the second largest army in NATO). Turkish political leaders think a Turkish incursion into northern...
Thank you, Allie. That was very powerful Mary ..the best way out is always through... ... Do you Yahoo!? Yahoo! Tax Center - File online, calculators, forms,...
Peter, we've been through this discussion before and I'm not anxious to start it up again. ... As a beginning and an end to this discussion, I'll provide the...
Alya, I agree with you assessment of this show. Actually, I "know" one of the marital counselers on the show, Don Elium, from being on list servs with him....
Monica, Is Don Elium that guy with the beard, kinda chubby? He was the really quiet one on there yesterday. ...there's almost something chilling about this...
On Sunday, 30 March, 2003 16:04 [GMT+1=CET], ... I totally agree, here. I don't need to find someone who has acheived "enlightenment" or whatever. Just...
On Monday, 31 March, 2003 11:48 [GMT+1=CET], ... If you feel that "chemistry" early on in a relationship, it is due to complementarity, not symmetry. With...
Thanks everyone for your replies to my post about my situation. I don't have time to reply to them right now--but I will--she'll be here any minute!!!! ...
Ah, Chris, the siren song of answering critiques. How can I resist! I want to start with Mises because we have a major disagreement here on praxeology. I can...
I'll have to register here with my vote AGAINST that web site. I've read some of his stuff before, and it just doens't cut it, all around. Lance On Sunday, 30...
In a message dated 4/1/03 12:31:53 PM Eastern Standard Time, ... Lance, I would give anything to have my husband back in my life. We were so much in love, so...
... to ... find a ... this is the ... Uhm, I guess this is a matter of opinion and so I'll have to disagree with you on this one. I rarely feel chemistry with...
... to ... find a ... this is the ... Well, I wrote a response to this post but I think yahoo "ate it." So, here I go again. I'll have to disagree with you on...
I agree that visibility is more essential than symmetry...but symmetry is still important in certain respects. If a couple has a high degree of visibility,...
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Hey Lou, I really think that "deep" symmetry is what visibility is based on. By "deep" I mean ...not things like reading, athletics, favorite hobbies - I mean...
Hi Allie, So when you say "deep symmetry", you mean a high degree of visibilty. If that is correct, then I am in agreement with you that that is of the utmost...
... very ... Well, with my example, I think one partner may in the beginning like and appreciate the laid-back type of person. Maybe that person brings a...
Like any writing (notably, my own), I suppose there are parts of this that could be picked at. What I have to say, Mike, is that I found this post very...
Ok...so I see where you are going with that. Yeah, I can see some people liking that aspect of differences-at the start (the honeymoon stage might blur all...
I agree with your assessment of prime time sitcoms Allie. Thats why I don't
watch them if I can help it (dad sees them sometimes)......I usually stick
with...
... Ah, Norsen's articles, I've commented on them before, but I'll repeat it here as you seem to have forgotten what I wrote. If you read his articles, you'll...