I know so many people (I may be one of them) whose actual performance is way out in front of their self-esteem. Some of these people are a pain in the ass...
NEW ARTICLES in this Sunday, 1002 issue: + Fundamentals: What does it mean to exist? (Three ontological issues explored in this brief essay.) + Is 'Intelligent...
I apologize for the repeated post. WTT's URL was left off the last post. Find it at www.wethethinking.com NEW ARTICLES in this Sunday, 1002 issue: +...
... "Holding on to a resentment is like taking poison and expecting the other person to die." If that is true, then the resentment that fuels a vendetta could...
... with ... No doubt. It's just that the "top-down" imposition of "organization" really screws up the "bottom-up" spontaneous organization (which is then...
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Hey, I just read in "Taking Responsibility" something about "Confronting the Past" and Integration of unwanted feelings. Nathaniel Branden has written, that a...
Allie, I don't think telling everything to your spouse is a good practice, even if you are feeling guilty about something you have done. In your example, the...
... Hmm...I think having a person's spouse cheat on them with their best friend is common enough these days that it would be hard for anyone to be able to say...
I have deleted my original post from those who responded and forwarded the rest back to the group. ... <cirodagostino@y...> wrote: Allie,is this doctor you...
... <amaranth7@p...> wrote: Allie, Two thoughts on your question. One is Would I want to know if my wife had an affair after promising me that I would be the...
The bottom line of these things starts with the original agreement, which would be that the couple has agreed to an exclusive relationship. If that is broken,...
... of ... be ... some ... themself ... say ... Ken, I tend to see it as you do. I think that by not telling, the person who had the affair will forever have...
... An interesting question that seldom gets asked is, WHY would you want to know if your partner had an affair? (I'm talking here not about an ongoing affair,...
... "Would I want to know about it?" is a different question than "Should you tell?" If a partner has an affair, and wants to stay married, don't tell. Most of...
Allie I have not read all the messages, but to answer your post I would say, honesty is always the best policy to the honest person! Best Ciro ... if ... one. ...
Rich:If that is broken, the damage is already done to both parties, whether revealed, discovered, or still in the undercurrent Amen Rich! ... agreement, ... ...
... parties, ... I think I jumped past the what if involving the past (pre- establishment of the exclusive relationship). In that instance, I would hope that...
... I appreciate everyone's response on the topic, but I think with the exception of Mike Lee and Ken, nobody's answered the question :) And the question is,...
Allie, yes, I would like to know if my wife had an affair. Because I would not be afraid to know the reasons for her to have an affair. ... <rdengle@m...> ... ...
Hi Allie, I thought for a long time about this question. My gut reaction was that yes, I would definitely want to know. However, on thinking about it further,...
Yes of course I would want to know. Reality is my most precious commodity. As is my wife's If she was having an affair, my perception of reality would be so...
... While this is all good, healthy, sensible stuff to say, especially for an Objectivist, I'm not sure I get what you mean. But I think you're saying: If your...
... I think, Michael, that might depend upon what we're trying to perform. What you have observed is very true in environmentally-driven tasks, that some...
Allie, Interesting question. Clearly, if somebody cheats repeatedly while there is a mutual understanding, then the relationship is a fraud. The relationship...
Hello Michael, Yes I agree with your statement ... not perceiving their partner realistically.<<<< I think it boils down to what characteristics you find...
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