Maresie....I know what you mean about "survival life". My mini-cure for it is to not look on it as all or nothing. Promise you will do only one thing a day...
I just put out for the day.....it's still too cold at night....a beautiful hibiscus. Deep pink,$7.00 worth of pleasure that will last a long time....they go on...
... Far out Maresie!!!!! ... oh so good to hear good news!!! I'm really happy that you are finding the energy to move out of this purgatory. ... You have...
That and ...Heaven help me, jewelry making....way more expensive! idn ... plant flowers to enjoy all summer long, and year after year. Too bad we can't all...
... Holy Latitudes and Longitudes, you and I have a lot in common Iris. Your post blew me away. My childhood in Fun City was so much like yours I can't believe...
Well....we must have crossed paths at the "fountain"....I am 50, and was there just those years, so I'll bet we knew a lot of the same people....we all knew...
Nicky: I think I have moved out of the immobility and self hate to action. Today I made some more contacts for the job hunt. I have some more appointments...
... I'm glad Maresie. ... That has to be tough with cats and dogs. I can't go near critters now for more than a very short time and only in the open air and...
... Dennis ... OH...FANTUSI.....I knew him well, what a character! I loved when he wore the winged sandals like Mercury!! I don't remember the others though. ...
Do you remember Fantusi's FIRST name?? Yes, you know Fantusi was his real last name! Maybe I should tell you off group for his privacy. Also, did you know the...
I've just been sitting back and reading the exchanges between IDN and Nicky, in wonderment, that these two people should meet in the same online support group!...
Yes, it's been pretty amazing how many things we have in common, and surely we've crossed paths. My first marriage, I just wanted someone who wouldn't hurt me...
... When ... was ... there. ... of ... to ... No way!!! LOL! This is so funny Iris! In quintano's there was a girl called Iris and I kept wondering if you were...
... their ... a ... to ... later. True about that....but we did learn to ignore. I had a child- molesting great-uncle at home who I really WAS SCARED of. He...
... OMG...well, not that hard to believe! I remember him as having a wonderfully good and kind heart though. Did you know about his mother...if anyone grew up...
Did you ever hang around Washington Sq. on Sundays when all the folkies would come out? I mainly gravitated to the fountain because it was walking distance and...
Sometimes I envy people with good families...glad they have them of course, but there are times when I see them have a bad time and they can depend on their...
Hi idn: ... The answer is no. Since you have been writing about your early years, we have a better understanding of where you are coming from. It explains a...
Thanks, Angie...I have great female friends...would have been lost without them. We have been scraping each other up off the floor in turn for years. It just...
Hi Nicky...are you out there? Guess it's prime street vending season.How's the ankle faring? Do you remember the older woman (OMG, she must have been 40 or...
IDN, If anyone is gonna make it for sure, it is YOU. You have a beauty, a common sense, and a love for people that even IT can't kill. Look how much you have...
I am not much at writing but I have thoroughly enjoyed reading all the posts and have learned a lot. I left my n husband two months ago. I am beginning to feel...
Sounds like a good lawyer is the best bet. Get as much info as possible. Try and get into his email if he uses it(two lawyers have told me marital snooping is...
I believe my group postings may be being read....my friend's STBX N- idiot, I know has read my email to her. She had posted here several months back and he has...
Dear Iris, have been mulling over our email night and day. There is so much I want to talk about with you! The time I spent at the fountain was profoundly...
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