Lalaw...glad you are still out there, I worried about you....did you get my off-group message several weeks ago? I sure hope N didn't intercept it. If so, I...
Hello All, I've recently met someone, and I need to know this guy is not an N. They all present pretty normal untill the nonsense starts, and I know the...
Nancie, I have struggled with this too.... One thing I do is ask the person about prior relationships, etc and see if they take any responsibility for their...
Lucidity! Are you still out there? Thinking of you....Lisa ... __________________________________________________ Do You Yahoo!? Great stuff seeking new owners...
Dear Nancie: It is not unusual to feel as if you are being hyper-vigilant, when making new friends, post-N. You have been burned. The most outstanding trait,...
IDN, Awesome news!!!! go, girl, have a blast, and doll up extra to feel really special. I'll be thinking of ya while playing Candyland for the zillionth...
Hey Moonbeam, Good luck on the eyes! I had Lasik done about 2-1/2 years ago - got kind of talked into it, and the whole thing was not good surrounding it, but...
Dear Nancy, if you prick him with a pin and green stuff comes out, he's an N. LOL Actually, I think it's an important question. I don't think there is a sure...
In a message dated 1/31/02 5:19:10 AM, opalwings@... writes: << What fun!!!!!!! THANK YOU for that encouraging idea and way to see what it is that I ...
In a message dated 1/31/02 9:52:19 AM, suzyr@... writes: << Stress and confusion, not to mention brainwashing, does take it's physical toll. In the last...
In a message dated 2/1/02 10:21:37 PM, nancie212@... writes: << Are there any sure-fire ways to detect whether there's an N lurking here? >> yeah.... i...
Thanks Lisa....going with three friends at least now. I used to be very involved in music in NYC decades ago, played, performed etc. and these people I wam...
Nicky....wonderful post, but here's my two cents..... ... My N ALWAYS DID THIS!!! ... theirs somehow> ... of ... THAT WAS MY N!!! But on another note....there...
In a message dated 2/1/02 11:21:48 AM AUS Eastern Daylight Time, moonbm2001@... writes: << P.S. Survey question of the day: Do all N's hate cats? >> ...
Yup...mine long too....and very curly, they seem to like the Victorian Image.....or read...subservient woman image, too soft and gentle to cause them trouble I...
In a message dated 2/1/02 3:06:00 PM AUS Eastern Daylight Time, idn17@... writes: << BTW...another friend is playing one tomorrow PM, I am in control of ...
In a message dated 2/2/02 2:12:14 AM AUS Eastern Daylight Time, lmierni@... writes: << Just keep asking open-ended questions....and let them guide you....
Jill....yes.. all dressed up nice, ready to go, waiting for my "date"....female friend! We'll do fine.I don't even care enough to let N know how great it was...
Thank you all from the bottom of my heart. I will heed everyone's advice and keep both feet planted firmly. And for the record, my exN always walked ahead of...
Nicky: I think it is so hard to switch to normal after being with N's. I have had to really put the brakes on in getting to know people at work, say no to...
Nicky: I would agree with much of what you have written here and echo your thoughts on how deceptively unhelpful a lot of books are on helping victims of N's....
Suzy: I can certainly see how I became a codependent. No one ever thought of my needs in my life even some of the therapists I saw never really asked me what...
Thanks Lisa I realise that I have been angry with God.. If the marriage was 'meant to be'...why didn't He stop the BS and take me away from it..??? Well I do...
