HAPPY NEW YEAR EVERYONE, It's me (the lone male it would appear). I've been reading so much I've forgotten who has said what, and I want to thank everyone for...
I know my N is hiding something in his computer (emails). I cannot get past his password - he has recently changed it! Does anyone have any suggestions? I...
Well sdh, I'm suffering from the same illness, 'cantgetabackboneitis'. Enough kicks to the nether region and I'm sure I'll find one. Or better yet, meet...
I really question, again, the wisdom of putting the how-to's in print here. I bet lots of our N's are snooping us as well. I am sure mine is. We should not tip...
idn17
idn17@...
Jan 1, 2002 12:45 pm
5748
Mine would NEVER pay for sex....because as he puts it, he wants the woman to be really, really, into him. But porn....well they find it easier than real sex...
idn17
idn17@...
Jan 1, 2002 12:57 pm
5749
Well...my New Year's was a total horror show. My daughter invited me to her and son-in-law's home (wheteher to bring N was up to me, but he rarely goes out...
idn17
idn17@...
Jan 1, 2002 1:20 pm
5750
Several have talked about the N and porn. My STBX N idiot was into porn, although he denied it vehemently (as I went to website after website that he had...
... <cobley@k...> wrote: "It was all so surreal" Surreal...yeesss...I'd call it surreal...I'd call it "Twilight Zone!" Chris, I'm a good deal older than you,...
Dear Everyone, Wow! So many new posters, and so much reading I had to catch up on! The other day I logged on and there were around 100 posts I hadn't read....
In a message dated 1/1/02 4:33:00 PM, cobley@... writes: << Thank you for allowing me to vent, I get so frustrated with all of this, and yet, I have...
In a message dated 1/2/02 12:42:25 AM, asteph2508@... writes: << Just take what I've said as a caring and sympathetic warning. >> i totally agree with...
In a message dated 1/1/02 6:46:03 PM AUS Eastern Daylight Time, SweetColleen@... writes: << come on in baby...the water's FINE!!!! ;-) >> Oh, SC, you are...
... free, and it's just too hard, try to think of it this way. He will ALWAYS be there. Really, if you think about it, I could probably wait YEARS and contact...
Dear Therese: I would like to congratulate you on your recovery! Your message puts a whole seminar on N Recovery in a nutshell. I hope everyone will read it...
Dear Jill: I know you are going thru something 'very heavy', just now. However, I do detect a change in you. That recent event has triggered a new incentive....
Dear Jill: News of the fire is being broadcast, on a regular basis, in Canada. We have heard that the latest one, and some that came before, were acts of...
My exN was heavily into porn too, but never tried to hide it or deny it (he was entitled to it). Obviously, porn isn't just an N thing, but in his case I...
pamy345
pamy345@...
Jan 2, 2002 12:53 am
5762
The jerk I got mixed up with, was also into porn. I had taped a full length feature film of a cartoon, 'Felix the Cat'. People told me it was funny. I allowed...
My exN gave a very telling response when I questioned his 'dirty' online flirtations: "They make me feel good about myself, and then I can bring a better me...
Chris, I also agree with Alice's advice. When I read your story, it sounded like the set up of the plot for a psycho/horror movie. There was obviously...
pamy345
pamy345@...
Jan 2, 2002 1:25 am
5765
Wonder why we aren't hearing much about the fires here (northeast USA). How awful, Jill. Sounds terribly frightening. idn...
idn17
idn17@...
Jan 2, 2002 1:44 am
5766
Dear Therese, Thank you so much for your message of hope. I am in a similar situation, just not quite as far along in the recovery process as you are. I...
pamy345
pamy345@...
Jan 2, 2002 1:49 am
5767
Hi Jill, Glad to hear you haven't been affected by the fires. It has been in the news here (Northeast U.S.), and it sounds very dangerous. I loved your story...
pamy345
pamy345@...
Jan 2, 2002 2:10 am
5768
I'm learning. Apparently, the saying one thing and doing another is one of the basics they learn in Nschool. I don't think they even realize that as a...
pamy345
pamy345@...
Jan 2, 2002 2:20 am
5769
Here's one where my exN was different. He couldn't stand animals. As a big animal lover, I used to ask myself "what kind of a man hates animals"? (Now I...
pamy345
pamy345@...
Jan 2, 2002 2:29 am
5770
Thanks Suzy, Happy New Year to you too, and congrats on the salon. Sounds wonderful!! Therese--- ... breaking ... hadn't ... what. ... knowing ... reached ......
Dear Angie, Thanks for the validation. Quite an honor coming from someone like you who has come so far! Yes, things are looking so much brighter and I'm...
Dear sdh: I would say that if you feel something is up, something is. With an N something always is, so you're pretty safe in thinking so. The trust has...
I almost forgot!! I got a letter from my lawyer the day before Christmas, stating that the police department has closed, having found no cause for, the bogus...
