... but ... on ... OOOps sorry Makinit, I butted in, in the wrong place. Yes certainly depends on how we look at things. Suzie is right, it is very much a...
gypsiesdreams@...
Oct 1, 2001 12:46 pm
3928
Hello everyone, I had a very stressful weekend I need to fill you all in on the details. Last week I was getting concerned that my stepson's behavior was...
channejs@...
Oct 1, 2001 6:34 pm
3929
Jane, I am so sorry you had to go through all this. I am shocked at the way it was handled by the police, and glad you intend to file a complaint. And I can...
moonbm2001@...
Oct 1, 2001 8:11 pm
3930
Jane; Can you contact a battered womens support group (this family situation would constitute the same) and get them to help you with the restraining order....
mary dowd
Maresie_99@...
Oct 1, 2001 8:12 pm
3931
Hi Jane, I tried to post to you, but don't know why it never showed up...Anyway, I don't know alot of your background/situation, but here is what I would do,...
therese@...
Oct 1, 2001 8:18 pm
3932
Hi Mary, I am hoping that my husband will move out into a rental house soon. My mother won't be able to move in until the end of November. Finances are going...
channejs@...
Oct 1, 2001 9:38 pm
3933
Jane: Well usually one comes up with a package as a trade off for the judge to sign off on. In theory everything gets thrown in the pot. I got divorced 10...
mary dowd
Maresie_99@...
Oct 1, 2001 11:11 pm
3934
Dear Angie, Thanks so much for your support and advice. I've re-read it several times now. I'm working on my list of his transgressions. There's so much,...
moonbm2001@...
Oct 2, 2001 3:50 am
3935
Dear Mary, Just wanted to thank you and tell you this really helped me get through the week last week. At one point he came in and asked how I was doing. I...
moonbm2001@...
Oct 2, 2001 4:03 am
3936
Dear Jane, I do not know all the history of your situation, but based on what you wrote here, this is what I would do. 1. I would go to my attorney TODAY and...
therese@...
Oct 2, 2001 4:36 am
3937
Dear Moonbream: Well the whole friends one minute soul mates the next is the N's quest for narcisstic supply. One minute you're primary supply (when you're...
mary dowd
Maresie_99@...
Oct 2, 2001 4:22 pm
3938
hello. not even sure if this posting a message thing is gonna work. i'm not the most computer savvy. was directed to this site by a friend and i have just...
DawnerLin@...
Oct 2, 2001 5:42 pm
3939
Dear sweetcolleen, Welcome to the board. I too am new here and I just wanted to take a moment to welcome you. I have been blessed by this group's kindness and...
channejs@...
Oct 2, 2001 7:22 pm
3940
Welcome Schoschim, I want you to know that I can understand you are in a difficult situation. It is not uncommon for religious leaders to be extreme Ns. I hope...
channejs@...
Oct 2, 2001 7:29 pm
3941
Hi All, I am so happy that I found these groups, I am in need of support, no one seems to understand what I've been through the last 2 years, with my N, except...
jo33bc@...
Oct 2, 2001 11:59 pm
3942
thank you for your reply..... yes, I am very interested in other people's journeys- self discoveries as to the hows and whys that we found ourselves in these...
DawnerLin@...
Oct 3, 2001 12:20 am
3943
welcome! Let me take this opportunity in my novice position... to congratulate you on your incredibly strong move to go into therapy. And for sticking with it....
DawnerLin@...
Oct 3, 2001 12:30 am
3944
Yesterday and Today 10 new members have joined our group!! Hearing each story and giving support and information is going to be tough. I know, for me, the...
suzyr@...
Oct 3, 2001 2:15 am
3945
Hi Colleen, Im fairly new here myself, was on another message board for a couple of months. It's amazing how similiar ns all are. I am rather the opposite, Ns...
gypsiesdreams@...
Oct 3, 2001 2:29 am
3946
I am so glad that you saw his "emotional" burst for what it is...bravo!!! Not getting sucked back into the confusion and chaos is challenging in itself. You...
suzyr@...
Oct 3, 2001 2:30 am
3947
... discoveries as to ... the first ... likely to ... you would be ... Ps, Sorry about the extra post. One thing I do know with one of my N co girlfriends is...
gypsiesdreams@...
Oct 3, 2001 3:00 am
3948
http://help.yahoo.com/help/us/groups/chat I will schedule an open chat for saturday. Anyone who would like to chat, can enter by clicking on the chat button...
suzyr@...
Oct 3, 2001 3:24 am
3949
In my case, my mother is definitely an N - controlling, unreasonable, always the center of attention, demanding adoration and attention no matter how mean and...
Ginny
ginny@...
Oct 3, 2001 3:28 am
3950
Dear Jane, I'm fairly new to the group and I was just taking a minutes break from my studies and read your postings. I was humbled and saddened by the ...
JilJon@...
Oct 3, 2001 3:29 am
3951
In a message dated 10/2/01 2:05:23 PM AUS Eastern Standard Time, moonbm2001@... writes: << That confusion kept me hooked for so long. I might as well...
JilJon@...
Oct 3, 2001 4:03 am
3952
All members may add bookmarks or articles to these areas. Steep_Ascent has added some very good new ones recently you may want to check out. Thanks SA!! Love,...
suzyr@...
Oct 3, 2001 4:03 am
3953
Dear Jane, What a lovely, thoughtful, wonderful letter. I think I'll save this one. ... Regards Jill...
JilJon@...
Oct 3, 2001 4:09 am
3954
wow. thank you for sharing that..... do you think... that this is a maternal thing.... that they are attrcated to? I was constantly in arguments with him.... ...
SweetColleen@...
Oct 3, 2001 4:29 am
3955
thank you so much for sharing that with me..... i actually... grew up with a wonderul mother but an abusive and schizoid father.... apparently the opposite...
SweetColleen@...
Oct 3, 2001 4:33 am
3956
Well, so far so good and I haven't heard a thing from the N since his harassment by proxy in August!! Yayyy!!!! Law enforcement and my lawyer have told me...
