... I'm very glad to hear that your daughter does not have the key identifiers of psychopathy! Hopefully, she is just going through those teen-age years. I...
J. D. Candykitty
candykitty@...
Sep 1, 2001 3:10 pm
3672
What's a holiday? Sorry but I have been dragging pretty bad the past few years. Gotta go. But thanks for the info. And yeh, I know to let her go a bit.... It...
SD
suedarnell@...
Sep 1, 2001 9:33 pm
3673
So now the exN has played the 'control by proxy' hand. I was visited by a police detective this week on a claim that I made unauthorized purchases on the N's...
suzyr@...
Sep 2, 2001 4:10 am
3674
Suzy: I am not suprized your N is still out there to get NS. Good for you that you have it covered. I am glad you are getting away and will soon be free of...
mary dowd
Maresie_99@...
Sep 2, 2001 4:21 am
3675
Suzy, This sucks. You'd think after over a year he'd give up already. Good for you though, about moving your business. You keep taking care of yourself. No...
ibshar@...
Sep 2, 2001 7:18 pm
3676
Suzy, Your N is disgusting. Like Shar I am wondering about what the police are going to do. This is a false police report. Isn't that against the law?!!!!!...
Quails22@...
Sep 2, 2001 11:04 pm
3677
My lawyer is going to send my proof to the police officer. The police are aware that he is a problem to me, but have to check out any claim. I am certain...
suzyr@...
Sep 3, 2001 12:44 am
3678
Hi I am just ending a 12 year relationship with a narcissist. We have two children and it is very difficult. He left me for another women. I have recently...
scph43@...
Sep 3, 2001 3:15 pm
3679
Stephanie: Welcome to this group. I would try to learn as much about narcissism as you can. Understand the concepts of Primary Supply and Secondary Supply....
mary dowd
Maresie_99@...
Sep 3, 2001 3:24 pm
3680
Hello Stephanie. Welcome to this group. You are in a tough situation. The man you shared your life with has a BIG problem and it is not something you can do...
jazzygranny2002@...
Sep 3, 2001 6:24 pm
3681
It sounds to me like simple but horrible emotional abuse. Mental abuse is worse imho than physical for many reasons. The sooner you get and stay away from him,...
SD
suedarnell@...
Sep 3, 2001 8:31 pm
3682
Suzy, Couldn't you sue him for harrassement and also get him to pay your lawyers fees? Maybe then he'd get the message. (I doubt it though) All my best to you...
ibshar@...
Sep 4, 2001 3:25 am
3683
Thank you for your response to my letter. None of my friends or family seem to understand what I am dealing with. I am having trouble with letting go of the...
scph43@...
Sep 5, 2001 3:08 pm
3684
A liitle redecorating for the start of fall here in the US..... :) Love, Suzy...
suzyr@...
Sep 5, 2001 9:05 pm
3685
Stephanie: I have been overly guilty of trying to make N's human. My last N boyfriend who I left a year ago had children who he had little contact with. He...
mary dowd
Maresie_99@...
Sep 5, 2001 10:10 pm
3686
My name is Rob, I currently live in Broward County, FL. I see a psychiatrist on a weekly to monthly basis, I was misdiagnosed at age 16. My mother and father...
Rob
luciofulci65001@...
Sep 6, 2001 6:30 am
3687
Hi Rob... Can you let me know if you get this emial? I am confused about your address. My Mom has Narcissitic Disorder. I have Boderline. Hey, have you been to...
SD
suedarnell@...
Sep 6, 2001 12:06 pm
3688
Don't get much of a chance to post and read since I'm back in school, but I wanted to share some information about my n. I finally finished with my therapy and...
justme12@...
Sep 6, 2001 7:12 pm
3689
Hi Sue, Thanks for your reply. It's tough to say how I feel, I put a lot of the blame for how I turned out on my mother and father. I believe my mother was...
Rob L
luciofulci65001@...
Sep 6, 2001 10:13 pm
3690
YAYYYY PW!!!!! You go 'College MeMe'!!! :) Love, Suzy ... school, ... that ... is ... really ... but I...
suzyr@...
Sep 7, 2001 1:45 am
3691
College meme, that is terrific! You go girl. Love, Shar...
ibshar@...
Sep 7, 2001 3:13 am
3692
I'm going "home" tomorrow. I haven't been home in 3 years. I'm filled with so much anxiety over this trip. I just want it to be over. I'm going home for a...
ibshar@...
Sep 7, 2001 3:28 am
3693
Hi Rob, These links might be of some help to you. To gain more insights into your inner world you can also visit BOOKMARKS here. It contains a nice collection...
steep_ascent@...
Sep 7, 2001 4:32 am
3694
Thanks SA, I was wondering if being I'm such a music/movie fan, if anyone in this group knows any movies that have to do with NPD. Also are there any sites...
Rob L
luciofulci65001@...
Sep 7, 2001 5:06 am
3695
Dear Stephanie, I have not read or posted here much in a long time, but your post caught my eye. My husband and I split 15 months ago, and I too, wondered if...
therese@...
Sep 7, 2001 3:12 pm
3696
Therese: You gave some very sound advice to Stephanie. What do you say/do when the father fails to exercise his custodial privilige and does not show up, or...
jazzygranny2002@...
Sep 7, 2001 5:24 pm
3697
Hello everyone. I haven't posted in a few days, but I do always read the list. I am trying very hard to keep my chin up and not get down but I am having a hard...
channejs@...
Sep 7, 2001 5:48 pm
3698
Thanks, Angie, Luckily, my kids are now old enough to survive (I mean that literally) if he doesn't show. Last night was a perfect example. He is to have the...
therese@...
Sep 7, 2001 5:50 pm
3699
Dear Jane: The longer you delay making the decision to tell your husband you are divorcing him, the longer this torture lasts. There is no 'good time', for you...
jazzygranny2002@...
Sep 8, 2001 7:38 am
3700
Dear Therese Your children are at a very impressionable age. They will remember some of these things, well into the adult years. Divorce is a very tough thing...