Bravo Angie! This was brilliant! Even though it wasn't addressed to me, I read it and felt a bit relieved. I am losing my health drastically because of the...
steep_ascent@...
Aug 1, 2001 7:15 am
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-hi karen stopping in for a few minutes. what a sh*t. i'm so sorry. what do you mean by 'throwing the book at him'? what could you really accomplish? and if it...
cjoanne681@...
Aug 1, 2001 3:36 pm
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Dear Karen, I'm so sorry to hear about the situation you are in now. It is a distressing one, not the sort of thing one can just put out of mind by force of...
betawolf2001@...
Aug 1, 2001 6:23 pm
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Thank you so much everyone, for your thoughts and your support. I am going to leave it a few days before I decide what to do - I can be quite impetuous and...
Jackaminea@...
Aug 1, 2001 10:57 pm
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Dear Karen, I have an absolute understanding in what both of your parts tell you. Both of you are sensible. Sometimes to forget requires much more energy than...
steep_ascent@...
Aug 2, 2001 3:27 am
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For people who strive or even wholeheartedly believe they are unique, N's are pretty much all alike. Nminor came around again. I let him off the hook, because...
suzyr@...
Aug 2, 2001 3:46 am
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Dear Suzy I think this would be a really valuable idea. Perhaps if you started things going we could all add to the list. Sorry about NMinor, but glad you are...
Jackaminea@...
Aug 2, 2001 8:34 am
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SA: thank you for your reply. It was good to hear from you. Everyone: thanks again for letting me vent. The timing of receiving this piece of information...
Jackaminea@...
Aug 2, 2001 8:48 am
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Suzy: Yeah I have my own hooks of making N's more important than they are and making their opinions the one's I need. The golden compliment hook is a big one...
mary dowd
Maresie_99@...
Aug 2, 2001 2:25 pm
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Dear Suzy: this Sat. I will be attempting to follow your lead - emotionally - that is be detached and perhaps even amused. I am bringing a friend to the...
David
venturacountylaw@...
Aug 2, 2001 4:57 pm
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Suzy and Mary: It is my 5 cents to your research. I too find that some emotional suppression in the earlier childhood may lead to one's susceptability to...
steep_ascent@...
Aug 3, 2001 3:02 am
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In keeping with Suzy's idea of hooks and detaching, I thought I'd share my last couple of days with you. Yesterday I went to work and there was a new guy...
ibshar@...
Aug 3, 2001 4:46 am
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My common-law spouse of 2 years just left. I was abused for most of the time. The therapist that we saw together just told me she believed he is a narcissist....
Trish
ainslie_1999@...
Aug 3, 2001 5:48 am
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Hi Anslie Hope you will find some answers on your questions here. You feel dreadful now, but in all honesty, you should be congratulated on your Freedom! You...
steep_ascent@...
Aug 3, 2001 7:50 am
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Dearest Karen: Sorry in the delay in getting back to you. Things are becoming somewhat hectic inasmuch as my move date is getting closer. There are so many ...
Rhonda Bennett
rbennette@...
Aug 3, 2001 11:58 am
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David: I guess it all boils down to .......just what is your pain tolerance right now.........? with regard to going to this function. If you can stand the ...
Rhonda Bennett
rbennette@...
Aug 3, 2001 11:58 am
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Karen: I think you have picked up on an important thread. It is as if I have a "cord" that is attached from me to the n in his absence. It is as I am still...
Rhonda Bennett
rbennette@...
Aug 3, 2001 11:58 am
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Dearest Angie; What you write is so true. I really began to think about this yesterday after I read this message. I recently went out with a guy who wanted ...
Rhonda Bennett
rbennette@...
Aug 3, 2001 11:59 am
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Kookie: Oh no two little messages as you put it can totally unwind a perfectly content day. It really does not take to much to put you back into the head ...
Rhonda Bennett
rbennette@...
Aug 3, 2001 11:59 am
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Suz: Your lawyer is right. This guy and his father are full of bs. You know the acorn does not fall to far from the tree. patz...
Rhonda Bennett
rbennette@...
Aug 3, 2001 11:59 am
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Dearest Karen: I cannot believe this man would do this......but then again his is a predator. Yes he would use James' cancer money to feather his own well ...
Rhonda Bennett
rbennette@...
Aug 3, 2001 11:59 am
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Dearest Beta: hey don't just end like when someone we love dies, so that we can grieve, and then let go at last and move on. Somehow we can't set it aside,...
Rhonda Bennett
rbennette@...
Aug 3, 2001 12:03 pm
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Dearest Karen: Your thoughts on this n makes me weep. It the same story of my n. He wanted John's money to help with his "projects" Never mind that is the ...
Rhonda Bennett
rbennette@...
Aug 3, 2001 12:11 pm
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Dearest Karen: I will be praying for you, Julia and JAmes for the Lord to sustain you. Would that I could be there in person to try to help in some way. patz...
Rhonda Bennett
rbennette@...
Aug 3, 2001 12:28 pm
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Dearest Trish: The first place to start is to make sure you are taking care of your health and your child's. We have all been in your spot. I did not eat,...
Rhonda Bennett
rbennette@...
Aug 3, 2001 12:28 pm
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David: Good tactic to take someone along that you trust and knows what is going on. He will be very helpful to you if she trys any manipulative crap. patz...
Rhonda Bennett
rbennette@...
Aug 3, 2001 12:28 pm
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Dearest Patz Thank you for all your wonderful, supportive words. I was about to mail you to check whether you are OK and am glad to hear that it has been...
Jackaminea@...
Aug 3, 2001 3:13 pm
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Good on you, Shar, and thanks for sharing these things with us. Have you had the results of the cardio tests? I felt really churned up for you reading about...
Jackaminea@...
Aug 3, 2001 3:24 pm
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Dear Ainslie Welcome to the site. You will find many supportive people here. This must be an awful situation for you. Caring for a young baby is exhausting...
Jackaminea@...
Aug 3, 2001 9:38 pm
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Dearest Ainsilie: I can only reitertate what Karen has stated. Please continue to post here as it might be your life line. You must take care of yourself. If...
