Dearest Patz How is your day going? I've been beavering away at a work project that got seriously delayed by the N-exposure this week, and have made good...
Jackaminea@...
Jul 1, 2001 7:11 pm
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Dearest Patz How is your day going? I've been beavering away at a work project that got seriously delayed by the N-exposure this week, and have made good...
Jackaminea@...
Jul 1, 2001 7:32 pm
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Dear Karen, I am doing something now that I have never done before, which is to say I am feeling depressed right now as I write this. It just sort of came on,...
betawolf2001@...
Jul 1, 2001 7:57 pm
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Dear Betawolf I think telling someone that you are depressed is an important step. Just saying or writing the words; admitting that this is your reality. You...
Jackaminea@...
Jul 1, 2001 9:32 pm
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Dear Friends Some of us have been chatting about the importance of having a 'cave' to retreat to. Somewhere to go and lick our wounds; somewhere that feels...
Jackaminea@...
Jul 1, 2001 10:34 pm
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Dear Friends Some of us have been chatting about the importance of having a 'cave' to retreat to. Somewhere to go and lick our wounds; somewhere that feels...
Jackaminea@...
Jul 1, 2001 10:36 pm
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You are all invited to Suzy's Chat Birthday Party, July 7 Come join us. When? 1 pm Pacific, 2 pm Mountain, 3 pm Central, and 4 pm Easter Time--until whenever...
WorthItt@...
Jul 2, 2001 3:36 am
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Dear Karen; Your friend's story is truly sad. She has spent 15 years of her productive life wishing and hoping. I sometimes suspect that women feel if they...
Rhonda Bennett
rbennette@...
Jul 2, 2001 1:45 pm
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Karen: I love "liberty prints" In fact I brought some liberty while in LOndon and plan to cover some of my bedroom furniture with it! LOL RIght now my home...
Rhonda Bennett
rbennette@...
Jul 2, 2001 1:46 pm
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Please forgive me for changing a word on the Subject line, but I think we are talking about being in a good place, rather than being in a cold, dark, cave - to...
jazzygranny2002@...
Jul 2, 2001 4:48 pm
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Dearest Patz Please never apologise for sending a long mail. Firstly because we all need to let these things out, and secondly because reading your mails is...
Jackaminea@...
Jul 2, 2001 4:50 pm
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Dear Patz, I just read your post to Karen, and it is remarkable the things you are doing to rebuild your life. I read them and so much admire your spirit and...
betawolf2001@...
Jul 2, 2001 5:28 pm
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I'm sorry that you are going thru such a tough time, just now. Try to remember that THERE IS NO FUTURE WITH A N. Imagine that unhealthy emotion bond to him,...
jazzygranny2002@...
Jul 2, 2001 5:52 pm
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Dearest Angie: I read with great emotion your "coming out" after the world of N. It is truly a horrific experience that only fellow beings who have "been...
Rhonda Bennett
rbennette@...
Jul 2, 2001 6:07 pm
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Dearest Karen: You posted: What if it never gets better? What if this is all there is? What if I never stop feeling desire for the xN and never start feeling...
Rhonda Bennett
rbennette@...
Jul 2, 2001 6:20 pm
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Dear Angie I fully approve of your changing the subject line. You're right about the connotation of caves; we went to visit some inhabited troglodyte caves in...
Jackaminea@...
Jul 2, 2001 6:40 pm
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I have been so depressed. Three months ago I moved my N-mother to an assisted care facility. Most of her furniture went with her. However, she had lived in...
Quails22@...
Jul 2, 2001 7:24 pm
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Dear Angie What can I say? There is so much common-sense in your mails. It is brilliant having someone who can take such a calm and objective perspective on...
Jackaminea@...
Jul 2, 2001 8:18 pm
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Thank you to Karen and Patz, for your warm wishes & sentiments. I appreciated reading the extract from Collette. And I would gladly accept a jar of stamina, if...
jazzygranny2002@...
Jul 2, 2001 8:31 pm
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Good for you, Quails! The most immediate problem (emptying the house) has been taken care of. At your leisure, you can sort thru those boxes. If I was in your...
jazzygranny2002@...
Jul 2, 2001 9:03 pm
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Dearest Patz It was so thoughtful and generous of you to respond to my mail when you are going through such a tough day yourself. Do not worry about replying...
Jackaminea@...
Jul 2, 2001 9:18 pm
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Dear Noels Just wanted to drop you a quick line to ask if you're OK. Haven't heard from you for the last couple of days and know that you're going through a...
Jackaminea@...
Jul 2, 2001 9:58 pm
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Dear Karen Thank you for your thoughts... I'm slowly getting there.. Haven't been able to talk re cave yet...mine is more a refuge at the moment.. And I really...
Noelene Ainsworth
noelenea@...
Jul 2, 2001 10:13 pm
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You know Angie I also knit. I have not knitted a woolie in years yet I am still hanging on to some Angora.........it is about 10 years old......way past time....
Rhonda Bennett
rbennette@...
Jul 2, 2001 10:37 pm
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Karen: I will be in chat in about 30 minutes. It will be about 7:30 PM here. WIll be there later. patz...
Rhonda Bennett
rbennette@...
Jul 2, 2001 10:37 pm
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Dearest Noles: I figured you have been having a whale of a time with the depression. We are all at different points in our recovery and our ability to cope...
Rhonda Bennett
rbennette@...
Jul 2, 2001 11:08 pm
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Dearest Betawolf: I am glad if any of my posts are helpful. As I said I have whittled those days down to 2 out of 7. Today was a bad day. I told Karen and...
Rhonda Bennett
rbennette@...
Jul 2, 2001 11:08 pm
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Guess what? So do I. (For some weird reason there feels something vaguely embarrassing about admitting it)! I like doing really intricate things, so probably...
Jackaminea@...
Jul 2, 2001 11:39 pm
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Hey I am in chat. come join me. patz...
Rhonda Bennett
rbennette@...
Jul 2, 2001 11:42 pm
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Dear Patz To say I was moved to tears by your beautiful post would be an understatement and an injustice to your suppotive and kind words.... I realised today...
