Hi my name is carl My wife has bpd. and its hard not talking about it.she has been bpd since 13years old. now she is 22years old.she has just had a jeaction...
Carl, We welcome you! Please know that you have our full support and as best we can we will share our experience, strength and hope with you! Seek, too, the...
Thank you for your reply Nealie , ive turn'd to friends that we have. here but its hard we have just moved here and family that i wish to talk to is sadly not...
Oh Carl..... on this site we try to be aware of the newcomers for sure.... Have a good day! Nealie [Non-text portions of this message have been removed]...
A great resource for BPD is http://www.bpdcentral.com/ There are message boards, articles, some useful information, some not-so- useful. Its everything you...
Thank you all for your post to me, ive found them all very help full. and thank you to the person that has sent me your site my wife is looking at it this mo,...
What a pity it was diappointing. Not surprising. It's a difficult topic to wrap one's mind around and Dr. Phil has this simplistic attitide. It just doesn't...
It would have helped if the person they were talking about actually had NPD, but she did not. ... From: "knowledgefairy" <knowledgefairy@...> What a pity...
I find Dr Phil offensively judgemental and simplistic. I'm not at all surprised that it was crap. His shows are more about shaming scapegoats than doing...
Hi Annette, Thanks for the validation. I totally agree with you. Oprah's old shows used to be real about these issues and now on TV there isn't anything...
I hate to be the one to tell you this, but holding on is going to kill you. So if you can, just walk away ASAP. If not, run like hell because it doesn't get...
Carl, We deal mostly with NPD. I think you need to talk to someone in person that knows about Bi Polar disorder. Can you call the local hospital and ask for a...
Hi Carl, My name is Rachel. I don’t post much here but this thread caught my attention. Does you wife have bipolar disorder or borderline personality ...
I really dont know how this works,, i read about narcisissm by accident one day,, and realized for the first time,, that i really was dealing with this in my...
Denise - I am currently divorcing my nbpd husband, and I don't know why it took me so long to finally be free again. I too kept focusing on all the wonderful...
I would love to have some support in this insane lifestyle Ummmmmm - no, Denise. You do not need support in "this insane lifestyle", you need to remove...
I am so grateful to hear from you all !!! I so believe you,,,I am already trying so hard to have low to no expectations to only find myself with resentments...
Denise, separating from a narcissist is very, very difficult, but it is what you need to do - completely. Zero contact. It will no doubt be very difficult and...
that sounds so ,,, simple,,,true,,, it takes the wind right out of my sails though. it feels like ive walked into a brick wall and the shock is got me stunned....
I think it's a gradual process; as you learn to love yourself more you will have the strength and chutzpuh to leave the environment that hurts you. In the end,...
That's pretty true - they keep strumming your emotional weaknesses like guitar strings until they find another person to use then you are gone like last week's...
I understand. Take a bit of time if you need to in order to get used to the idea, but keep in mind that you cannot fix him, you cannot fix the situation - not...
i just went from fine(ha) to an absolute fit. and that is exactly what happened ,,, i took it personal. i am so angry (well tired now cause i just drove around...
and i dont mean to be a baby ,,, but it freaking totallly hurts so bad to throw so much out to someone and be creamated everytime (in its time) oh in its time....
and believe me that is so what i have tried to do. fix him, by loving and accepting and trying to no avail but desperatly talk sense into him. by way of ,,,...
Hi Denise, It always helped me to remember that I was OK and he was the one who was not. That as much of an asshole as he was, I didn't have to be one too....
I had to laugh about the wanting to win part - THAT WAS SO ME! I likened myself to a dog, not wanting to drop the bone. I'd yell to myself out loud, "Drop...
I have found myself so excited and looking foward to finding you all here (my god i havent had a real desire for so long now) thankyou so much for your support...
