Hey All, I am currently in the process of divorcing my narcissistic husband, and while I thought it would be easy...it is so hard. He really tried to get me...
Hello !!! You have come to the right place and we're glad you found this site ! You will learn that you are certainly not alone in how you feel..... this is a...
My husband has a hold over me too. He does so much to hurt me. He is abusive, he cheats, lies, keeps making women pregnant. He lies so much that he honestly...
Hi, kukucachoo, I've been lurking on this list a while (but there haven't been too many posts) I have some narcisssts in my family and I've been trying to...
I commend you for continuing with your divorce and not giving in. Even though you know it is not your fault. It is quite possible that you do still love him...
In my own experience he will always blame you because he will not be held accountable for his own behavior. Some one wrote in here how my situatoin and...
I just emailed about escalating NPD behavior. Please dont take any thing I have said as a slam, that is in no way how I intended it. I wanted more than...
Hi flea That is a very good book, I have read that as well. It will help to understand why you feel a longing for this type of person as well. Take care Flea...
Thanks for all the advice. My therapist actually told me that his behavior will worsen because of the fact that I left, and that he will forever hold it...
I think in the beginning they are but their false dictates their every function. There is no way for anyone to stay in that light of perfection. So once the...
My wife was abused for seven years by a narcissitic spouse, finally leaving when he beat her senseless and she was left in a full body cast. She stayed with...
It sounds VERY much like your daughter might have Borderline Personality Disorder, right down to how your granddaughter is treated / used and how your...
Thank you so much. I will look into it. We did the nine factor test on my daughter and felt she had 6 of the behaviors, some very definitely. I have been...
hi you asked,Are narcissists ever really capable of loving someone? i have asked my therpaist that questions and she says yes they are , except only in there...
hi you asked,Are narcissists ever really capable of loving someone? i have asked my therpaist that questions and she says yes they are , except only in there...
hi you asked,Are narcissists ever really capable of loving someone? i have asked my therpaist that questions and she says yes they are , except only in there...
hi, i may have missed it in your letter, but how old is your grand daughter? she sounds very adult and that concerns me. i was a daughter of a narcissictic...
My granddaughter is 10 and is quite accomplished for her age. She has won art contests, reads at a 12th grade level, loves Disney Radio, and is developing...
I agree with you in all what you say. Thereīs another difficulty: the love we have to our family. I have also a family full of narcissistics and perverts...
In reading your stories, I feel compelled to share with you a little bit of my experience and where Im at now. I am 3 months out of my relationship with my...
hi melly: i just wanted you to know that i am so sorry about your life with your ex-boyfriend. i am so glad you got out because had you had children your life...
lau, i just read the most interesting quote yesterday in a really excellent book called "the narcissistic family"...i'll probably mangle the exact words, but...
Thanks for the comments, Flea... Itīs always helpful to share our experiences. Can you please tell me the name of the author and press of that book? Thanks a...
By everyone sharing their stories, I am comforted knowing that I am really not alone - that people have witnessed the acts of a narcissistic person for real....
Hi My name is Monte. I'm new here. I was raised by two N parents and they traumatised me. I have had three N girlfriends and they traumatise me. I am an...
Welcome Monty..... Glad that you are here.... we hope you find us to be "friends" from the start ! Take good care and have a good week now. Nealie [Non-text...
N parents caused my childhood trauma and I'm struggling to deal with it. I display some symptoms of attachment disorder in my relationshps with other people. I...
Hi, Monte. Itīs not that youīre hounted or something. I think that you get involve with Ns because you need to solve the problems you couldnīt solve with...
