Marilyn- I want to thank you very much for your response! I have an appointment with an attorney on Thursday. I spoke to him on the phone last week & he...
You're welcome. I'm glad you contacted an attorney. I would hate to see you do this VERY HARD work of removing yourself only to have to do it again because of...
I'm so sorry for you.... what tremendous strength you are keep up in order to stay in your relationship. Is he ever alone with your son? Does he bug you to...
When I loved myself enough... I learn that I am grateful for the light I now live in rather than the darkness I once did. Now that you are in recovery, are...
no, i am not basking in the light. i feel trapped by the dark. i am facing my 43rd surgery, i live in intense pain 24/7. i try to be strong, i have learned to...
Nancy, I am so sorry. I knew a guy that had arthritis - he was young - only in his 30's and he was in constant pain all day every day. Some days he just...
thanks pam for your kind words. for the most part after the surgeries the pain gets better after the initial 2-3 months of recovery from surgery except formy...
Hi, Am in a horrible situation, reliving my 20 yr abusive marriage via the behavior of my 16 yr old daughter. Am just on the floor sometimes with grief and...
Robin, I rarely post here because my situation and goals are very different from the rest of the people here, but I think I may have some small thing to...
hi robin: i would be happy to talk with you about this. i have a almost 20 yr old and we have had our times where i thought, oh my god who is this person? so...
I totally agree... luck. Sherry <umrayya@...> escribió: Robin, I rarely post here because my situation and goals are very different from the rest of...
Hey All, I am currently in the process of divorcing my narcissistic husband, and while I thought it would be easy...it is so hard. He really tried to get me...
Hello !!! You have come to the right place and we're glad you found this site ! You will learn that you are certainly not alone in how you feel..... this is a...
My husband has a hold over me too. He does so much to hurt me. He is abusive, he cheats, lies, keeps making women pregnant. He lies so much that he honestly...
Hi, kukucachoo, I've been lurking on this list a while (but there haven't been too many posts) I have some narcisssts in my family and I've been trying to...
I commend you for continuing with your divorce and not giving in. Even though you know it is not your fault. It is quite possible that you do still love him...
In my own experience he will always blame you because he will not be held accountable for his own behavior. Some one wrote in here how my situatoin and...
I just emailed about escalating NPD behavior. Please dont take any thing I have said as a slam, that is in no way how I intended it. I wanted more than...
Hi flea That is a very good book, I have read that as well. It will help to understand why you feel a longing for this type of person as well. Take care Flea...
Thanks for all the advice. My therapist actually told me that his behavior will worsen because of the fact that I left, and that he will forever hold it...
I think in the beginning they are but their false dictates their every function. There is no way for anyone to stay in that light of perfection. So once the...
My wife was abused for seven years by a narcissitic spouse, finally leaving when he beat her senseless and she was left in a full body cast. She stayed with...
It sounds VERY much like your daughter might have Borderline Personality Disorder, right down to how your granddaughter is treated / used and how your...
Thank you so much. I will look into it. We did the nine factor test on my daughter and felt she had 6 of the behaviors, some very definitely. I have been...
hi you asked,Are narcissists ever really capable of loving someone? i have asked my therpaist that questions and she says yes they are , except only in there...
hi you asked,Are narcissists ever really capable of loving someone? i have asked my therpaist that questions and she says yes they are , except only in there...
hi you asked,Are narcissists ever really capable of loving someone? i have asked my therpaist that questions and she says yes they are , except only in there...
hi, i may have missed it in your letter, but how old is your grand daughter? she sounds very adult and that concerns me. i was a daughter of a narcissictic...
My granddaughter is 10 and is quite accomplished for her age. She has won art contests, reads at a 12th grade level, loves Disney Radio, and is developing...
I agree with you in all what you say. There´s another difficulty: the love we have to our family. I have also a family full of narcissistics and perverts...
