hi, i really don't know what to say, but i am new to the group. my name is nancy. i am 45 yrs old, 46 at the end of october. i am married to a great guy for 24...
Welcome Nancy. I am sure that you will find a lot of support here. You have come to a good place! Nealie [Non-text portions of this message have been...
thanks nealie, i am glad you wrote. i wasn't exactly sure what to say, so i just tried to give the basics. nancy nelliehook@... wrote: Welcome Nancy. I am...
Hi and welcome! Tell us more about your situation if u'd like. Feel free to vent. I sure do. Sarah Nancy Little <x5catlvr@...> wrote: thanks nealie, i...
hi sara: well, i grew up with a very narcissistic dad who vacilated between being a "charmeer" and very violent. i am 45 and due to childhood neglect from both...
Hi everyone, I just wanted to introduce myself and give a short explanation as to why I am here. In December of last year I discovered my husband had cheated...
hi pam: i am new also to the group, but believe me it isn't you. you just described my dad to a "T"! my mother finally left him after 55 yrs of marriage 2...
Hi Nancy, Nice to meet you! My husband hasn't actually hit me but he has become violently angry, slamming doors really hard etc. Last time he did that I told...
hi pam: will write tonight as i have to get to work, but i have read your words and believe me, it is not all your fault. he uses the words to try and...
PAM:hi, you knowmy dad acts the exact way when you walk away. i figured it out quite a while ago that he gets so angry when i walk away because he just HAS to...
Hi Pam and Nancy, I am an "old timer" on this site and still occasionally read up on what is going on. After reading your posts, I could not help responding...
My mother it´s narcissistic and my father has borderline disorder. (They hit me all the time for the stupidests things, change me from school 9 times only in...
dear susan: you said it best when you said there is never enough of anything inc. love to fill their empty souls! that is my father to a "T". he is always...
dear susan: you said it best when you said there is never enough of anything inc. love to fill their empty souls! that is my father to a "T". he is always...
Hi again Nancy, No, he has never done anything other than slamming doors and once he banged his fist down on the sofa really hard in temper and came very close...
Nancy - Congratulations! It takes strength and courage to become enlightened enough to realize we must move on in a positive way, not only for ourselves, but...
Wow, Laura, I am so sorry. You sound as if you have really been through the mill. Is there anybody that is even a little close to you? Do you have just one...
Hi Susan, You are so right about missing the man you thought he was. My husband isn't the man I fell for at all, not even close. The difference is that with...
Laura...... I fully agree with Pam as I am sure most of the people here. You must try to get out as quickly as you can and be independent of your family....
2 years ago December I suggested the wife was an N. (2 children) 3 1/2 months later he said he was going to divorce her.... realized she would never change....
I'm sooo sorry to hear that. Does he know about NPD? Maybe you should give him some links abour it. I could give you a few. (And a book) Then maybe he will...
Thanks, but yes he does. I have given him the information.... When he was serious about divorce, I bought him "SPLITTING, Protecting Yourself While Divorcing...
Hi Recovering - I think we "know" each other! Hope you are doing OK. Pam recoveringfromheartbreak <jvasilatos@...> wrote: Can they please e-mail me? ...
Hi Zen, I am sorry about your son. As you may have read, I suspect my husband is NPD. I too am trying to make my marriage work. Truthfully I am pretty sure...
Hello Recovering........ we are here for you....lots of support here. We are all gaining so much together. Nealie [Non-text portions of this message have...
Here is a link with everything.... It's an MSN group, bur it has lenghts to a website run by Dr. Sam Vaknin (who also runs this club). You should tell him to...
Recovering, It isn't you, it's her. Cheaters, whether they have NPD or not, are responsible for their own actions. We didn't make them do it. My h said he...
Oh, I didn't know that either. Like you, not that it matters but still.... recoveringfromheartbreak <jvasilatos@...> wrote:Thank you Pam. I got your...
