When I loved myself enough... I learned that I needed to continue working the step questions, because my answers would change according to changes in my...
One of the things that angers me that I am trying to let go for my own recovery is how much stuff that my nmom took from me. If someone gave me something and...
Tough stuff, Kim, especially since mother's are supposed to protect you. I think this is a much harder healing than what I went through with my N husband but...
So now that you know everything this is what I did. Whatdya think? I sent my ex a no contact rule e-mail. I'm moving back to town next week and I decided to...
Itīs so sad, my parents had simmilar behaviour: they throwed away lots of my toys when i was a child without even ask me, they also change me from school 9...
When I love myself enough... I learn to bury toxic relationships that were dead and instead used my personal resources to address my own unhealthy behaviors...
In my case I think itīs better to go away and donīt see them any more. They made me too much damage. I fight a lot trying to make them love me and I failed...
"Past behavior is the best predictor of future behavior." Dr. Phil When I loved myself enough... I learn that unless I made a conscience effort to change my...
hi, i really don't know what to say, but i am new to the group. my name is nancy. i am 45 yrs old, 46 at the end of october. i am married to a great guy for 24...
Welcome Nancy. I am sure that you will find a lot of support here. You have come to a good place! Nealie [Non-text portions of this message have been...
thanks nealie, i am glad you wrote. i wasn't exactly sure what to say, so i just tried to give the basics. nancy nelliehook@... wrote: Welcome Nancy. I am...
Hi and welcome! Tell us more about your situation if u'd like. Feel free to vent. I sure do. Sarah Nancy Little <x5catlvr@...> wrote: thanks nealie, i...
hi sara: well, i grew up with a very narcissistic dad who vacilated between being a "charmeer" and very violent. i am 45 and due to childhood neglect from both...
Hi everyone, I just wanted to introduce myself and give a short explanation as to why I am here. In December of last year I discovered my husband had cheated...
hi pam: i am new also to the group, but believe me it isn't you. you just described my dad to a "T"! my mother finally left him after 55 yrs of marriage 2...
Hi Nancy, Nice to meet you! My husband hasn't actually hit me but he has become violently angry, slamming doors really hard etc. Last time he did that I told...
hi pam: will write tonight as i have to get to work, but i have read your words and believe me, it is not all your fault. he uses the words to try and...
PAM:hi, you knowmy dad acts the exact way when you walk away. i figured it out quite a while ago that he gets so angry when i walk away because he just HAS to...
Hi Pam and Nancy, I am an "old timer" on this site and still occasionally read up on what is going on. After reading your posts, I could not help responding...
My mother itīs narcissistic and my father has borderline disorder. (They hit me all the time for the stupidests things, change me from school 9 times only in...
dear susan: you said it best when you said there is never enough of anything inc. love to fill their empty souls! that is my father to a "T". he is always...
dear susan: you said it best when you said there is never enough of anything inc. love to fill their empty souls! that is my father to a "T". he is always...
Hi again Nancy, No, he has never done anything other than slamming doors and once he banged his fist down on the sofa really hard in temper and came very close...
Nancy - Congratulations! It takes strength and courage to become enlightened enough to realize we must move on in a positive way, not only for ourselves, but...
Wow, Laura, I am so sorry. You sound as if you have really been through the mill. Is there anybody that is even a little close to you? Do you have just one...
Hi Susan, You are so right about missing the man you thought he was. My husband isn't the man I fell for at all, not even close. The difference is that with...
Laura...... I fully agree with Pam as I am sure most of the people here. You must try to get out as quickly as you can and be independent of your family....
2 years ago December I suggested the wife was an N. (2 children) 3 1/2 months later he said he was going to divorce her.... realized she would never change....
