Dear recovery friends, Hi! I've missed you and hope this post finds you all working on your recovery and achieving greater happiness as you awaken and heal. In...
Hi, my name is Wendy. I am not sure where to start but I have an idea so here goes. First of all, the email address for me is my exN’s name NOT mine. It was...
Hello Wendy, I had an N mother that seemed to be Borderline also. I have married two Ns...my present husband is major N and very serious Borderline. First of...
your story made me cry because i have been there and know what it feels like, in fact all i can offer is the knowledge that you are not alone ,the feelings...
I wish I could find a support group in or near Chicago. I have no insurance right now so a doc is not in the near future, Thanks though for your help. So you...
But I feel like I could have done something differently. Every woman in his life pointed out that I was somehow different from the rest, he changed for me,...
But I feel like I could have done something differently. Every woman in his life pointed out that I was somehow different from the rest, he changed for me,...
Hi, Wendy -- Welcome to the group. You did a great job of describing your situation, and your past relationship. Many of us here had had similar experiences,...
there was nothing you could have done ,nothing at all ,he won't change and your life would have been miserable ,trust me when i look back on my experience i...
Thanks so much for taking the time to help me. I had a rough day so far, I can't help watching the doory hoping he will come and save me, even though my head...
Thanks for your help. I thik I know the answer to this question but I can't help but ask it: If he didn't want me back why does he keep me stringing along? Why...
... In short: because he can. To him you are a toy, a plaything, and inanimate object. He doesn't see a real person the same way a healthy person does. He...
Your advice has been trully amazing. I know what you say is true, and when I begin to heal I know I need to look further into why I kept taking him back, why I...
I went thru this when I was young, only 26. He abandoned me quite a few
times and then would always come back saying he loved me and missed me. I
was afraid to...
I had parents with NPD also and was very abandoned and abused by them. They
didn't even get a clue when my younger sister committed suicide. In fact
they made...
Thanks Rose for your guidance. I have done tons of journaling today. hard though to stop the hurt. I knwo what you mean about not feeling you could make it on...
Is there anyone in this group who would like to chat about how you are coping and recovering from having a relationship with a N? I joined this group sometime...
Hi, I had posted a few months ago when I left my ex N. Well I went back for one more round of self abuse about a month ago. It was short lived about 2-3 weeks ...
Hang in there, its like kicking te heroin habit. You got to go through some bad times before it gets better. But it will get BETTER. I promise. I did go to a...
I feel like I wish I had someone that understood that I could talk to. Nights are the worst for me. Debbie Mueller <smartdebbie2001@...> wrote: Hang in...
Well it seems my N parents just helped me for once make it a bit easier, they called me for the first time in 3 weeks, before now they just kept talking with...
It's been a long time since I last posted. I left my N husband almost 3 years ago, under a restraining order... pretty much escaped with my little boy. We ...
When I loved myself enough... I learned that I needed to continue working the step questions, because my answers would change according to changes in my...
One of the things that angers me that I am trying to let go for my own recovery is how much stuff that my nmom took from me. If someone gave me something and...
Tough stuff, Kim, especially since mother's are supposed to protect you. I think this is a much harder healing than what I went through with my N husband but...
So now that you know everything this is what I did. Whatdya think? I sent my ex a no contact rule e-mail. I'm moving back to town next week and I decided to...
It´s so sad, my parents had simmilar behaviour: they throwed away lots of my toys when i was a child without even ask me, they also change me from school 9...
