It's now 2005 and i am so frightend. He sat me down and said i will change this year, no more drinking, i want to give you and the kids a better life. Heard...
Dear Snowangel, You have already tken the first step, you finally rrecognized your part in the relationship. PPeople who post on this site know what you are ...
Hi, Well, I have been lurking here for like 6 months. The posts have really helped but I am still struggling. The N relationship(s)I have had in the past have...
First I just want to send you my support and love. I have made progress in dealing with Ns but I still have my weak points. It is very hard, painful and you...
Dear Surfer, Welcome to the group. After reading your posts I had a couple of thoughts... the first one was I'm glad that you find this group helps. I lurked...
snowange: I have been in this group well over a year, yet I have not posted much. Well, there is a reason! When I found this group I was at the end... no,...
Hi Heather, Well when I first read your reply I cried. But in a good way. It really felt like you understood. I am doing much better but I am still hooked to...
Dear Victor~ You did an amazing job of saying what I would have shared.... Yet you get an A++ for being so accurate and compassionate yet firm about what we...
Dear Victor, I joined this forum about a month ago. I have never posted, I just read. Maybe because I am sooo tired. I applaud you for your integrity,...
There were so many things i can identfy with that you said. No i do not want to loose all i have.....i feel my kids and i deserve this......but i do know i...
Victor, I'm so glad that life is better for you now... more peaceful I'm sure. And you are absolutely right about doing the work that needs to be done! But...
Dear Surfer, I have walked in your shoes and do understand! It's so hard to fathom how a person could treat someone else so badly and move on as if it never...
Dear Cari, I just wanted to say keep up the good work. I'm sure your kids appreciate you. Life isn't peaceful sometimes and living with the daily dramatics of...
Heather: I suffered it for over 4 yrs. Took 2 years to take the plunge. That was way too LONG! Looking back, I should have left her the day after the wedding! ...
Dear Loop members: Have you reach the point in recovery where you have a good understanding about narcissism and you “understand” the personality disorder...
Morning all: Had a very productive day Friday. I prepared the car for my trip to my daughter's that I will be taking Mon. I will be gone for about a...
Hi, Well, yes I am definitely making progress and doing better and am overall very happy but today I am having a setback. I have been doing all of the right...
Hey, hang in there, perhaps just venting about how you felt at the moment made it feel better? I also would think it is part of the grieving/letting go...
Ok, I just posted maybe an hour or so ago and I was in a funk over the xN relationship and other negative things in my life. I was talking about how I just...
Dear Surfer, What you are going through IS normal. I had stuff like this happen months after breaking up with my N. It's funny how one thought leads to another...
Hi All, I have been at my daughters up in White Mts. of NH for a few days. I also had car serviced got organized and set out for my mini trip. I find to keep...
Heather - Good for you! You go girl! Glad to hear you are out and about and facing him. I can't respond personally, deleted my addresses by accident, I...
Dear Vicki, The story is actually much longer. I read our church emails on a regular basis but haven't attended since last May because of other commitments. I...
Boy, I know the whole church responsibility concern and all the dynamics there, I had to do something similar in the past. It seems that stating what needs to...
It doesn't make any sense how N's leave their mark on us,but they do.Even now after almost 2 years I sometimes get down and question why someone could come...
i dont know if my email will be excepted. But i would like to speak. i am a mom of 4 beautiful kids. I left my nf almost nine years ago. I left for peace...
u know, i dont know if my emails are accepted..by just u or others. I read theirs and i want to reply and I don't know if i am able, think maybe they block...
