HI Everyone, I'm still here as well... just don't feel the urgent need to vent like I used to. I am doing well, life is great, although at times I still battle...
Hi, I'm still here, too. I know that I was posting a lot at the time in my life when I was most overwhelmed by the Ns in my family. I've gotten some great...
Roberta & Heather, how great that you are N-free and moving on. At this point I am emotionally addicted to the N. No contact on my part for at least two...
Had a great weekend. Got up and had breakfast that Jim had prepared. Did some laundry and got ready for our normal Sat. in the "big city," we watched a movie...
Hi Vicky, I did go to the chat room so at least I know how to get there. I'm on Pacific time so maybe we can hook up. Anyone else interested? I would have...
In a message dated 11/1/04 8:51:17 PM Central Standard Time, autumnshome@... writes: Roberta & Heather, how great that you are N-free and moving on. At...
Hi Pamela, how is your son doing? How are you doing? I can't imagine being married to a full-blown N. The N I was involved with said he divorced his wife as...
Sherry, thanks. I darn sure could use a hug!! I got reamed out at another group for using the words "addiction & obsession". Both describe exactly how I feel...
Dear Autumn, Keep doing what you are doing, it will work but it takes time. It took tome to get where you were. The wonderful thing about life is there is...
Dear Sherry, I just love your gratitude lists... they make me feel good too! It's the simple things that you appreciate and make youfeel whole. Keep up the...
In a message dated 11/2/04 9:26:25 AM Central Standard Time, brat_4ever99@... writes: Dear Sherry, I just love your gratitude lists... they make me feel...
Hey Autumn, Hi Autumn, I too am on Pacific time, mornings are usually best. Tomorrow I will be working though. What is your schedule like? I haven't tried to...
Sherry, I like your list also. I'm doing an Angel Journal. Each morning I write down what I need help with (boy is that list growing) and ask the angels for...
Vicky, I sent a msg. re: chat but it didn't show up. What about 9:30 Fri. morning? Will that work for you? I still miss the N and do cry a lot. The emotional...
Heather, you give me hope. Hard to see the light at the end of the tunnel right now. I do question why I was attracted to such a sick person. How did you know...
Charlie, I encourage you to write a book. People need to know about NPD. Education is the answer. There is just too much suffering from interacting with such...
Dear Autumn, I know because I did it. Believe it or not I became the worlds best unpaid private detective. I knew he was cheating on me but didn't want to...
Heather, I agree with Autumn, your "testimony" gives me hope. A few hours ago I ended it with abusive N. I feel sad, of course I am very tired from being up...
Hi Vicky, I am sorry for what you are going through. I can just feel the pain and confusion. I know you made the right choice. There is no real relationship...
I really have been keeping away, and really didn't want to look into narcisism, but I only picked up a book and actually saw what I only think it may be. I...
Well Well Well As I was reading this, I was only thinking that the writing sounds identical to the name at the bottom of whom wrote this, but I was only...
Hi Sherri, NPD isn't something that a person gets from their parents in every situation. For example...my husband is an N with Borderline Personality...
I wish you the best Vicki, I am married to my N husband. I have been prevented from working and now suffer from PTSD...until I get well enough to being...
Thank you Pamela, Yesterday was two weeks and I feel so much better, I am getting back to "me" again. It has been a process however, I still have LIMITED...
Morning All: Had an interesting thing happen this morning while I was reading my daily recovery material, I had a passing thought…and fantasy really. I...
Hi All, Just wanted to let you know how people can heal and learn and grow from our experiences with Ns in our lives. I wrote this last January a few weeks...
Heather, thanks for posting, that is very good and accurate. It is also very timely for me personality - and brings a smile, laughter and tears... Vic ... ...
Morning All: I had a wonderful week as my middle brother and his wife were here from UT. This was the first time in 4-5 years that they have made it back to...