Dearest Suzy, Happy Birthday! :) My loving wishes that this is a fun and joyous day for you and that the year ahead is full of your continuing accomplishments,...
can you tell me some stuff about NPD like what kind of people get it and why? i read about it and my friends think i have it i dont know but i'm only 14. kind...
Mike - My understanding is that NPD comes from some abusive childhood event(s) of an extremely bright child, who then protects themself by creating a false...
well.... when i was about 12 i was really depressed and after that i coped with it by making myself think i was somehow 'better', more deserving than other...
Well, it is similar as what is most important to an N is to see their reflection within other people. How important they are to other people. How much in...
thankfully i am getting better and learning to be nice and care for others but its still there a little bit. mike ... their ... they are ... give ... i ... ...
God where do I start? 4 years ago, I thought I had found the perfect man. Except he was only 19 and me 30. At first it was just sex, but it was like I was...
Hello Beth... Thanks for sharing your letter. Get yourself a handheld recorder...record all conversations with this man and then use them to protect yourself....
Hello Mike, The good news is that you recognize that you want to change. There is help out here. Too often someone with NPD carries this through their...
HI Beth, Wow, what a story... even though life is tough and you still have to let him see his son, I hope that you are feeling a little better emotionally....
Hello Beth, If this guy isn't paying support...MOVE! I am not reading anything here that sounds like this guy has an ounce of love for you or the baby. Just...
Question. Do you think that there are any links between Narcissism and ADD? Both my husband's family and mine are riddled with ADD. But I'm also noticing...
Hello Laurie, My husband appears to have ADHD and he is Narcisstic as well. His family is full of NPD and BPD. His mother had both and his father was NPD, so...
I find it interesting that so often there is some overlap to some of these conditions. Another is OCD. Compulsions seem to drift through ADD as well as NPD...
The condition that seems to address them all is Borderline Personality Disorder. There is a hospital program that is addressing this in NY, they seem to have...
... This area of neuroscience is still in it's infancy, but some exciting work is starting to be performed at a couple of research centers. Joshua Greene at...
Hi everyone, Here I'm back again. Now I have a question: How is a narcissist likely to react if rejected by a woman when he insists on having sex with her on...
Hi Ariel~ I haven't written in a long long time... guess your email triggered some memories.... And a need to share... Can't comment upon the "Two-date Rule"...
Hi Ariel~ I haven't written in a long long time... guess your email triggered some memories.... And a need to share... Can't comment upon the "Two-date Rule"...
My sense is that this may be fact, but as soon as he has someone else to fill the void, he will move on, and not look back. He will also turn your rejection,...
I can agree with you there they are attractive. But when you think about it looks are not everything. It's far better to go out with someone less attractive...
He is a N and he sulks when he doesn't get sex on the 2nd date? You are so lucky that he doesn't get in contact, Don't give him any chances to sulk at you...
Run, dump him and run. Good looking men and women don't have to be pleasant to have people wanting to be with them. Ugly, or ordinary people often have to...
My mom has it too. they get worse as they get older. I think a true N will only chagne to lget you back so he can control you again. Teh change is an act. -sue...
I believe, and check me on this, that diagnosis is made from a manual called the DSMV (?). For each disorder there are behaviors listed and a guideline such...
I see tons of N traits in myself, but now that I know the symptoms, I can tell the difference between a true N and not. The true N's that I believe I have...