I am listing some sites here that may help others. www.abuse-excuse.com Dean Tong's site...His books tell you how to deal with custody and divorcing a BP/NP...
Thanks for your valuable information. I'm getting away for two weeks, and although I know I'll dearly pay for this privilege, being armed with this literature...
Hello Suz...you are welcome. This information is what has helped me to put my own life back together. Take time to take care of you. Angel suzhartge...
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Hello to all; First,my abuser has never been diagnosed,as far as I know.I have a pretty good idea that NPD is the root of his/our problems.I used to think he...
Dear Carol Ann, Welcome to the group. You sound like you are with my ex boyfriend... He did all those things except sign his notes G.O.D. But at one point he...
Hi; Yep,still here.Not much longer.Funny thing about the G.O.D. thing-he doesn't have any religious beliefs at all. Very odd puppy.And dangerous.I once thought...
Hi Carol Ann, Be careful. Staying is a choice, but be wise about your safety. Call the police if necessary or leave and go to a safe place for you. Good luck....
Carol Ann, If showing him that you desire change is the "trigger" for violence, then how can change occur? I agree with Heather, you need to protect yourself....
I don't mind,I can only say that it is because I cannot go to my local shelter (he found me there in 2001),and until today,he has been here almost 24/7 since...
Dearest Suzy, Happy Birthday! :) My loving wishes that this is a fun and joyous day for you and that the year ahead is full of your continuing accomplishments,...
can you tell me some stuff about NPD like what kind of people get it and why? i read about it and my friends think i have it i dont know but i'm only 14. kind...
Mike - My understanding is that NPD comes from some abusive childhood event(s) of an extremely bright child, who then protects themself by creating a false...
well.... when i was about 12 i was really depressed and after that i coped with it by making myself think i was somehow 'better', more deserving than other...
Well, it is similar as what is most important to an N is to see their reflection within other people. How important they are to other people. How much in...
thankfully i am getting better and learning to be nice and care for others but its still there a little bit. mike ... their ... they are ... give ... i ... ...
God where do I start? 4 years ago, I thought I had found the perfect man. Except he was only 19 and me 30. At first it was just sex, but it was like I was...
Hello Beth... Thanks for sharing your letter. Get yourself a handheld recorder...record all conversations with this man and then use them to protect yourself....
Hello Mike, The good news is that you recognize that you want to change. There is help out here. Too often someone with NPD carries this through their...
HI Beth, Wow, what a story... even though life is tough and you still have to let him see his son, I hope that you are feeling a little better emotionally....
Hello Beth, If this guy isn't paying support...MOVE! I am not reading anything here that sounds like this guy has an ounce of love for you or the baby. Just...
Question. Do you think that there are any links between Narcissism and ADD? Both my husband's family and mine are riddled with ADD. But I'm also noticing...
Hello Laurie, My husband appears to have ADHD and he is Narcisstic as well. His family is full of NPD and BPD. His mother had both and his father was NPD, so...
I find it interesting that so often there is some overlap to some of these conditions. Another is OCD. Compulsions seem to drift through ADD as well as NPD...
The condition that seems to address them all is Borderline Personality Disorder. There is a hospital program that is addressing this in NY, they seem to have...
... This area of neuroscience is still in it's infancy, but some exciting work is starting to be performed at a couple of research centers. Joshua Greene at...
Hi everyone, Here I'm back again. Now I have a question: How is a narcissist likely to react if rejected by a woman when he insists on having sex with her on...
Hi Ariel~ I haven't written in a long long time... guess your email triggered some memories.... And a need to share... Can't comment upon the "Two-date Rule"...
