Hi H and NC Thanks for the advice. It's hard work being on the receiving end of an N. My ex-N knows a lot of personal info about me and I just feel like he is...
Dear Gladstone, Keep up the good work... while avoidance is a great strategy, try not to focus on the "what ifs"... it saps you emotional energy instead of...
HI Angel, Hang in there. You are doing marvellously to cope with all this. But I agree... you shouldn't be sleeping with a loaded gun nearby. Now that the...
Hi All-- I am looking for any information (other than Masterson; I've read his stuff) on "closet narcissism." According to Masterson, it has all the horrors...
we are in the same position in life right now regarding our spouses. if you do get any info on closet N's will you please forward it on to me too. i have...
Dear Chris, I really don't know much about closet narciaaiam... but there are lots of links to other sites if you want to go through the old posts on here......
Hi All, This is the list I was talking about... Hope it helps... Heather ... __________________________________ Do you Yahoo!? Yahoo! Small Business $15K Web...
Well, that struck a little close to home. I do recognize myself in five or six of those. I thank you, everyone on the list, for tolerating my presence here,...
You know the beast! This list is incredibly accurate. On the money thing, mine is constantly in litigation and is megamaniacal about her money. Btw, my N is my...
Thanks R... It is a tough week...my son is getting weaker. We are going to have to put together the finaces and a plan to get a re-evaluation at one of the...
The list is really interesting, it would be good if it could be expanded by everyone sending in a 'trait' example if it comes to mind. Im interested in this...
Some of these hit close to home for me, too. Which begs the question, if someone is actually able to recognize narcissistic traits in themselves (and even...
Some of these hit close to home for me, too. Which begs the question, if someone is actually able to recognize narcissistic traits in themselves (and even...
I've always known some of these things about me, just tried to deny them to ignore them and believe they weren't true. I now have to face them, and now I know...
What made you realize that you had to face them, since my father, an n, would NEVER admit or even realize he had ever done anything wrong. I don't think it's...
I think it's the conviction of God that let me see that they existed, but I still ran from it. My wife asked me to move out 7 weeks ago, now I've got to face...
Okay...my friends really think I am over reacting, but if you think this is NPD PLEASE let me know!! They think he is just a regular basic player/hoe of a...
Okay...my friends really think I am over reacting, but if you think this is NPD PLEASE let me know!! They think he is just a regular basic player/hoe of a...
Well, I know one thing. If it's not working you should leave now. Your friends may be whipped in general and think it's their place to take beatings for all I...
Uh, yeah, probably, and borderline personality disorder, with a strong RAD component. Crazy lying is one of my favorite things, btw. Anyway, why would you...
What is RAD component? Yeah, I am no longer dealing with him, but what SUCKS is that his roommate is dating my friend so she had a birthday and he shows up!!...
Yes, well not surprising that he has your friends snowed. Delightful. I am sorry you have had to go through this. Narcissistic Personality Disorder, ...
Dear R, At least you have recognized the problem and are actively seeking help and guidance... most Ns refuse or don't have the capacity to recognize what's...
R-- Call me crazy, but I have NEVER heard of an N with this much humility and willingness to look at themselves. We all have some N in us...where the line...
HI There. Please be certain you are not over reacting or crazy... this guy sounds so much like my ex N boyfriend that it's unreal... the lying, the womanizing,...
"If anyone told him how nice I was then he had to tell them how awful I was... " Mine still says, "Yes, Susan can take care of everybody but herself." But this...
