Joanie Thanks for reminding me of no contact and that I should be grateful to be away from her.N's just suck you so far into their world that it is hard to get...
Johnny, What helped me, when I was still with the N, to start distancing muself was this following post on Distancing, I used it as my bible ...hope it helps! ...
Hi Everybody - Want another funny story. My N had the nerve to tell me this weekend that the marriage has always been about ME (Ha!). Claimed he is going to...
Charlie - I wish to thank EVERYONE for their contributions to the list as I originally was the one that asked for it. I am going to keep a copy in my purse...
In a message dated 12/1/03 3:54:46 PM Eastern Standard Time, marilynmeyer9@... writes: Marilyn, ... Doesn't this AMAZE you? Like you are going to lose...
Charlie - I have REALLY ENJOYED reading the list and laughing so hard - these are so much like my husband! I was the one who asked for this list and I am SO...
... any ... boy ... in ... wondering what ... big "N" on his ... we would BELIEVE ... he was one ... this secret evidence of what a controlling, monster I have...
I am taking stock to see the reactions I have to this question..did anyone notice anything unusual about the act of kissing with their N? The reason I asked is...
In a message dated 12/1/03 9:11:55 PM Eastern Standard Time, ... Unfortunately, they never 'give up' ... they just regroup with a new scheme. I am so sorry...
Dear Al/Hugh~ ... For the record, my N spouse has probably kissed me a total of 10 times in 20 years. To say this is pathetic is an understatement. To say...
I always wondered why my ex didn't get into kissing,I guess it must be pretty common with NPD. Johnny Joan3424@... wrote: My ex didn't get into kissing...
We have so many smart people on this list and yet we were all SO STUPID to get involved with an NPD! I am told by others that I am pretty brainy and I know I...
I am just curious. Has anyone on here EVER approached their N and told them they suspect the N has NPD? If so, what did the N say or do? I imagine most will...
In a message dated 12/2/03 10:51:10 AM Eastern Standard Time, marilynmeyer9@... writes: Marilyn, ... LMAO!! Mine thinks he has the biggest and best in...
In a message dated 12/2/03 10:56:03 AM Eastern Standard Time, marilynmeyer9@... writes: Marilyn, ... I never found out about NPD until after I left. ...
Joanie - You are such a Hoot, girl! After reading your last two posts, I almost wet my britches and tears were coming out of my eyes!! You are a riot -- to...
In response to a couple of questions: 1st - I used to send him emails from this site to see if he could recognize himself. He was not appreciative of them...
... 10 times in ... been the topic ... someone else ... and physical ... part...) ... especially a ... misdirect their anger ... and "intimacy." ... lust.... ...
... narcissisticpersonalitydisorder@yahoogroups.com, "marilynmeyer9" ... or ... their ... Funny you should say that Marilyn, after all the brain racking and ...
Disclaimer to all: The following is not suitable reading if you are offended easily. Marilyn, If we didn't have a sense of humor about this... we would never...
In a message dated 12/2/03 4:38:09 PM Eastern Standard Time, beanrn@... writes: Deb, ... I wouldn't be surprised if he made it all up! I bet the counselor...
In a message dated 12/2/03 5:00:06 PM Eastern Standard Time, ... I think we do what we have to do in self defense... Oh I got to know just how to press his...
Mine could barely make 6" - I am so jealous!!!!! What is it about their "size" anyway? I suppose if they did not have their little "friend" they would be ...
While I was waiting for a response to enter this forum of discussion I found another website that also lets people compare experiences, and ask questions, it...
... narcissisticpersonalitydisorder@yahoogroups.com, "marilynmeyer9" ... thinker - ... back ... be ... 14 ... that "something ... my ... because ... having ......
In a message dated 12/2/03 8:38:43 PM Eastern Standard Time, ... Yeah, but I think he had me measure from wayyy back LOL!! (but he said that's where it...
In a message dated 12/2/03 10:24:33 PM Eastern Standard Time, ... Oh how I love it that you got your own score and had the guts to tell her what you did!...
My N soon to be XH has a genius IQ. In our 23 yrs marriage I dont think there was a day that he ever didnt make me feel like mine was about a 26. I ran a home...