... Hello Charlieathome, I am new too. Married 34 years to one. FINALLY come to my sences and seen the light. He nearly killed me with abuse, and lonliness....
Dear Louise~ Thanks for your reply. I can't help but read your letters -- and all of ours for that matter -- and wonder how and why we allow such behavior in...
Dear Deb, I ran across this old letter of yours, and I'm curious... what in fact did you learn from your counselor when you spoke about " being vulnerable to...
In a message dated 11/5/03 11:23:17 PM Eastern Standard Time, ... Hi Charlie, I took a long hard look at my life... and realized that ANYTHING was better than...
Dear Charlie, Glad you wrote to me. It was leave him or die. That simple. Decided for life. I can not live without love in my life. He can and does. I...
oh my dear. ..... when you get to the point when the situation at hand is the rock bottom. when you know that you are doomed if you stay. when you know that...
Hi - I'm Mazy. I need to know how to go on without him too. I had him taken out of our home after he kicked in our bedroom door in front of his kids. His ...
Do most of you find that your N's demonstrate physical violence towards you? This has not been the case in my situation ... is this a common trait? Charlie ...
In a message dated 11/7/03 12:12:10 AM Eastern Standard Time, ... Not until near the end... when I began to challenge my N and pull away my supply and make him...
In a message dated 11/7/03 2:27:50 AM Eastern Standard Time, sassysnick@aol ... I think its because you still see it as: We had wonderful times which I keep...
Joanie - I understand what you are saying, but how can one live doubting every move-every promise-? My N told me I analyzed and questioned way too much. But...
In a message dated 11/7/03 6:47:38 AM Eastern Standard Time, ... Sassy, The more you read about NPD, the more your will realize the answer to that question......
... I thank you for your fantastic letter. You are right. My situation was rock bottom. I know now that I should have walked out while I was still able to...
In a message dated 11/7/03 4:06:04 PM Eastern Standard Time, ... Louise, That reminds me of a favorite saying "Sometimes you jump off the edge and you fly!"...
Joanie, Thanks for your support! Love that saying. Flying higher every day. Got lots of dreams and going for them. Not afraid of anything anymore. Louise ...
HI I think it's hard to realize that someone you have truly loved and trusted could betray you so thoroughly. Their ability to turn things around makes it...
This was sent to me... I think all of you in this group will benefit from reading this. Mazy - please stay strong.... and thanks so much to Louise, Joanie and ...
CHRISTMAS CAROLS FOR THE PSYCHIATRICALLY CHALLENGED Schizophrenia -- Do You Hear What I Hear? Multiple Personality Disorder --- We Three Kings Disoriented Are ...
Joanie, Absolutely HILARIOUS!!!! I am still singing Jingle Bells... Not a reflection of my mental condition, by the way. Just a very catchy tune - and the...
Interesting to read. Hard to do. I wonder if pancreatitis can be caused by worry also? My Psychiatrist thinks it was, or at least contributed to it greatly....
Hello everyone This is my first time to join in on the discussion.I guess I am a little bit different than alot of you because my N is a woman.We were married...
In a message dated 11/11/03 6:49:01 PM Eastern Standard Time, ... JW, Congratulations for getting OUT! And yes, it IS amazing how they can emotionally rape you...
My problem is that I have a seven year old daughter with her and i have to keep in contact with her.She has a way of using our daughter to pull me in and keep ...
Dear J.W.~ I think you nailed it .... THE hardest part was believing that you were THE most significant person in your N's life... and yet they can suddenly,...
In a message dated 11/12/03 11:45:39 AM Eastern Standard Time, ... Oh how true this is, Charlie ... I, too, will NEVER put someone else's needs ahead of my...
amen charlie i also think of my n as a gift, my lesson to finally get it took me awhile but this one did it i remember my counselor saying that he does...
Charlie Thanks for the words of experience and wisdom.Right now it really helps alot to have other people that know where I have been.You are right,getting...
After 8 years of chaos,lies,broken dreams and emotional stress i feel very anxious and find myself missing my N.I got so accustomed to the misery that it is...
