A friend sent me this last week. Hope you all enjoy Jenny How Specifications Live Forever When you see a space shuttle sitting on the launch pad, there are...
Hello: I would like to learn more about this disorder. What triggers the manic moods, more signs or symptoms and if there are any things that a person can do...
Hi, From the things that I have read, most of the time people who are Narcicistic don't think they have a problem at all. That they are quite perfect. Every...
My therapist says that the word I need to remember is "schizophrenogenic" that's my own mother, but this is as close as I will get to persons who know what I...
Hi all. Really grateful to have this group to vent/explore/journey/recover from lifelong struggles with toxic parents. I have done a lot of 12 step work...
Hello Tony: It certainly seems like you have come along way in your recovery. I have just joined this group and though I now know this group is here, I still...
My father died in 1988 My NMother is tossed out like a broken piece of furniture and I am healing from all the scrapes and bruises, finally, at age 49 My son...
Whether they are narccisistic, schizophrenogenic, screwed up in the head, ingrates, malcontents; feel free to free yourself from their clutches. Give yourself...
How do you deal with someone who believes that their only problem in the world besides hating their job to no end, is YOU. That you have destroyed their life...
Do you leave a cancerous growth in your body; no, the same thing goes for this.....its hard to face, its really difficult; I been there, I done that.......it...
Getting Away... then you deal with the how can you abandon me after all I have done for you. What kind of a person says they love you and then turns there...
In a message dated 10/14/03 2:49:45 PM Eastern Daylight Time, ... Oh that is so good! And so true! [Non-text portions of this message have been removed]...
In a message dated 10/14/03 3:05:06 PM Eastern Daylight Time, ... "How do you deal with them?" The questions should be "Why would you WANT to deal with them?"...
Joanie, Glad to hear someone separating from toxic people by changing number, email, etc. I have done the same. He loves to call when I least expect it with...
In a message dated 10/14/03 3:19:45 PM Eastern Daylight Time, ... And you still keep going back? Thats already nine years of your life ... how many more are...
In a message dated 10/14/03 3:57:01 PM Eastern Daylight Time, ... Yeah, LOL Tony, sometimes I think we WERE crazy --- for putting up with them for as long as...
I don't for the life of me know why I have this need to save him, or feel I can save him. I had two parents though divorced a brother, a sister whom my dad...
In a message dated 10/14/03 4:37:07 PM Eastern Daylight Time, ... You can't save him. No one can. You can save yourself. You need to get out of that...
I truly believe in what your saying and I have tried so many, many times to seek help, if I saw a female counselor I was a lesbian, if it was a male, its only...
And who cares what his opinion is, anyway? Consider the source... his opinion is worth squat, he is nuts. Don't give up on a counselor because of what he...
I am new here and have just dumped the N in my life. Actually my dh and I dumped him altogether and forever. There is nothing to miss, because after being his...
In a message dated 10/14/03 11:23:17 PM Eastern Daylight Time, ... Good for you! My oldest brother is an N, too... as was my ex. My ex I could walk away...
Hi Tony Nice to meet you, you sound as if you are doing quite well. Congratulations in being able to cut yourself off from the toxic parents. That takes ...
Hi, I have read many of the October e-mails and am feeling grateful for being part of this group. You people sound sane! What a relief this is--I've gotten...
Hello and welcome! I too am new to this group. I have been chatting with Abbee privately, and she has been making me feel wonderful, while my N makes me feel...
Hi, You have probably got lots of answers to this already, I haven't been here for a week, but how about don't even mention leaving, just walk away. Take what...
Good analogie, excellent points. Jenny ... Jenny _________________________________________________________________ Hot chart ringtones and polyphonics. Go to ...
... Hello Charlieathome, I am new too. Married 34 years to one. FINALLY come to my sences and seen the light. He nearly killed me with abuse, and lonliness....
Dear Louise~ Thanks for your reply. I can't help but read your letters -- and all of ours for that matter -- and wonder how and why we allow such behavior in...
