My N was served divorce papers Tues. He says he will wait until the 30th day to contest. (If he doesn't respond in 30 days, divorce is granted by default).He...
I am so sorry for your sorrow. I can only hope for your fast return to a
happier place. When I was re-reading some old posts -I happened across one that said...
Amy Webb
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Aug 1, 2003 3:40 pm
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good luck to you in a new and happy life without that man. __________________________________ Do you Yahoo!? Yahoo! SiteBuilder - Free, easy-to-use web site...
interesting post. happy. my eldest son asked me just last week, Mom, are you happy? i said, happy? hmmmm. i told him i was at peace. he said, yeah but are...
Hello Everyone, I'm new to the group, and I thought I'd do a quick intro. My name is Terry. Though she has never seen a mental health provider to be ...
Terry - I'm sorry for your pain and suffering. Self preservation is
essential here. Everytime I start to soften and think of my ex-N as a person
with real...
Amy Webb
akwebb@...
Aug 4, 2003 2:52 am
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Hi Terry, Sometimes I get this terrible guilt for not spending more time with my mother. We lost my father when he was young. But she makes it so hard to be...
Dear Recovery friends, hi after a long time. Recently, I've read a few posts in this group, and in other groups, that suggest bashing Ns is an unacceptable ...
He sure is delusional if he thinks that dragging this out interminably, and making you really angry with him is going to make you change your mind about the...
I hope he gets sick on the 29th day and has to stay in bed for a week, so he can't respond. That would be justice. Several years ago one of Australia's more...
Amy, Ironically, you ask a very interesting question -- several of my friends lately have asked me how in the world I survived the things my mother did to me....
Hi Terry, I commiserate with your dilema. I have a 76 year old N mother who has had a devastating effect on my life also. I can hardly wait to hear that she...
... Hi Jenny, This is a whole new thought for me. I always assumed that if I had a sibling, we'd band together and help each other realize we weren't nuts....
Terry' I'm so glad to hear you have friends who believe you about your mother. I remember the family having a dog when I was a child. Then one day he was just...
Hi Terry, My brother and I were set up as competitors. I guess we were also supposed to be showpeices. No. I know that we were. I think I was quite a...
............and what an excellent 2 cents it was. Great post!!! Thanks Paige nickyskye <opalwings@...> wrote: Dear Recovery friends, hi after a long...
Dear Paige, thank you for the nice, positive response. I appreciate it. :) love, Nicky ... Thanks ... group, ... this. ... and 'seeing' ... Bashing ... kind ...
Hi recovery friends, One thing I've felt for a while about the agenda for an NCo recovery group is that it would be constructive to state the goal is to get ...
Hi recovery friends, It's been 3 and a half years since I began my NCo recovery journey with the tools I needed to detach from Ns and be part of creating a ...
Here Here. good for you. no, we don't have to and shouldn't go on the rest of our lives doing it. but it is truly necessary for a period of time,as you have...
Here Here. good for you. no, we don't have to and shouldn't go on the rest of our lives doing it. but it is truly necessary for a period of time,as you have...
Dear Tonya, glad you resubscribed. :) It's an arduous process to detach from an N, first externally and then internally. I think the way you replied here to...
My emotions take ten steps back when N leaves 'nice' messages on my voicemail, or e-mails. Our 2 yr. wedding anniversary is Monday. He was served divorce...
Hey thanks Barb, ! :) (I hope I have your name right). I agree eactly with what you said to Tonya. Yes, not responding to the N, putting up the Wall Of...
Dear C, I have some strong opinions about what you wrote. Please understand that they are only my 2 cents. I speak from experience being stalked by a malignant...
Thank you Nicky. I am waiting for my attorney to return my call now regarding a restraining order. -C ... understand ... stalked ... instances ... where ... ...
Chris...I was soooo glad to read that you contacted your attorney. I read your post in the digest that came to my email this morning and didn't have time to...
Hi Tonya, I can understand your anger. I don't think that you should send the reply, but continue to vent your feelings and your anger if you can. Writing...
Hi, He's playing Games with you again. Don't believe him. Keep going on with the divorce. Do NOT go out with him to celebrate the anniversary. He is just...
