In a message dated 6/30/2003 2:55:17 PM Central Daylight Time, ... It is hard! But in time, it gets better as the days go by. Keep with the no contact rule!...
My husband called me millions of times up unil 2am last night. He called my mom & sister as well, and threatened to call my priest. Going insane b/c he thinks...
Hi, Your heart is wanting him because you fell in love with him, and I think most people want to think the best of others. BUT this guy is a N. You have seen...
I'll back you up on that opinion Jenny! I read somewhere that we are formed
as far as character at age 5-8 or thereabouts.From then on -we can learn to
deceive...
Amy Webb
akwebb@...
Jul 2, 2003 4:33 am
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I remember you saying he was a liar. Make sure you remember that. I'd change my phone number, and keep it unlisted. If he wants to regain your trust, you can...
Dearest Suzy, here it is the week of your birthday...a few days away. I just wanted to send you my love and tell you that, as ever, I wish you everything good...
Save yourself. It sounds harsh and cruel, but you have to. You've done what you could do. Set your mind free from the past. Try to have some rest. What N did...
If he really is an N - and you are sure of it, aren't you? - please give him no chance before he has proofed to be changed and that for at least a year! Don't...
I, too am going through a difficult time and need you guys- I have to keep reminding myself of the way I felt when N was here (three weeks separated) When he...
Thank you so much for these wishes Nicky!! This year has definitely been a good one! Yayyy!! I just recently moved into a nice new condo and have been...
Good topic here. Actually, it was one year after I left him during the divorce proceeding (lasted 1.5 years)ending a 32 year marriage that I read something on...
Hello guys. I need to talk this morning. I survived a 32 year marriage to a N. Toward the last, I was only a shell of a person actually. What I could not...
Hi Connie welcome to the group. I had never heard of NPD. My N had me convinced i was the crazy one projecting his behaviour onto me. I fell for it, after...
We are all hurting which is why we are here. Does the pain EVER go away? I dont know but i sure hope so. Stay strong we are all here for you. Hugs Paige ...
I would not give him one more chance, but that is my opinion. He is in tremdous trama now because you, his supply source, has left, and he is in survival...
as far as his new sweetie we are all put on this earth to learn lessons.....guess it is her turn we know what they are walking into but believe me they...
the Ns are so manipulative that when in counseling they pull the same charm that they pull to get their source they know all the key words, all the right...
Hi <A HREF="mailto:ncconnie2003@...">ncconnie2003</A>, My situation was/is much like yours. I am 43 and never thought I would be alone at this stage in...
P.S. This lawsuit is not easy! But I am determined to follow it thru! I am facing bankruptcy due to him, (to name just one) & have lost about everything, and ...
In a message dated 7/5/03 7:29:26 AM Eastern Daylight Time, ... Sadly, she probably won't find out sooner .. he fooled you for over 30 years ... he will charm...
I found out through his physician, who is also mine ... she knew I was going through hell, had me on anti depressants, and finally one day, wrote down...
I am new to this group - i couldn't wait to become a member so I could speak. This group will be my salvation. Because of you I don't feel so alone. Thanks...
I have an idea for you- plan a party for around the time he is getting married - before preferably - Buy champagne and have a toast to friends and family and...
Thanks for the suggestion of the party, but I have already done something similar to that. One week after the divorce was final I had a real divorce ceremony...
For a long time, I did not think I would actually, during the mariage and especially during the divorce. But one day I knew I would. For me, that point came...
In a message dated 7/5/2003 2:23:50 PM Central Daylight Time, ... LOL What a RIOT! All N survivors in one place. THat would certainly be an interesting...
