Oh Paige! What a mind blowingly tempting thing to do. Giving him back some of his own medicine. You are right though you do need to delete him from your life....
Hi Angie, So nice to hear from you, regards Jenny ... Jenny _________________________________________________________________ Get mobile Hotmail. Go to...
sorry it's taken me so long to get back on line, but I just wanted to say thanks to those of you that posted to "divorcing the N??. I appreciate all of your...
Hi Jenny Hope you are well. Thanks for remembering Ian and Ross. Yes they both returned safely from Iraq and are full of stories!..........Both are just 21...
Hi all ex spouse of N here Been there, done that...these people are clones ....that's why our stories are 'o so similar'!!!!!! How about this strategy.. Write...
Dear Paige, Two years for me away from N-inny Hammer. Initial emotions were terror, grief, low self-esteem, fealings of revulsion and disgust. It improves...
Need some advice on how to move on from the N damage. It's been almost six months now since he did the final damage at Disney World and I have days when I...
time will only tell doesnt sound like you are ready to move into another relationship give your self time to totally heal and to totally move on as far...
I've gotta agree, those red flags and that feeling of danger or fear is self-protective. Those are good things that keep us safe. When you say that his...
i have a question i have been moving along fine my exN met someone 2wks after we broke up, became engaged at 3.5 months and married her feb 14, which was...
Everyone thought N and I were just head-over-heels and 4 months is nothing to an N as he's just starting to destroy her and that may take a bit of time...
Just bear this in mind Starlight ........Wives DO NOT leave after 39 years for no reason!!!!! That would be a huge red flag for me! Do we ever get over what...
I am so relieved to find this group! After almost 2 years of marriage, 2 psychologists have diagnosed my husband as having severe NPD. He treated me like the...
You are right Paige...wives don't leave after 39 years with no explaination. He claims she was seeing a psycholigist and was depressed and he used to try and ...
Starlight - I understand. After 7 years of a total lie of a marriage, I am
serious with a wonderful man. But, I always have a question nagging me. Is
he this...
Amy Webb
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Jun 3, 2003 2:05 am
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I was happy with my N for over a year. He treats his current partner of 8 years like shit and she still idealizes him . There are a lot of lonely women out...
You have three opinions now about him being N. From what you said, it is all about him. That will not change. It only gets worse. Ns do not value the...
My N husband returned last night from a 13 day trip. We are seperated as of 1 week before the trip b/c I threw him out for lying (again). I had really tried to...
You are not "stupid" .As far as feeling taken in- we all were. That's part of what N's do- and they are so very good at it. I work in the criminal justice...
I'm sure you'll hear this a million times-"the only contact with an N is NO
CONTACT!" That is all that works.Good luck-honestly----Anita ... From:...
Amy Webb
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Jun 3, 2003 3:14 pm
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Thanks so much for your reply! I am so desperate for answers and trying to sort this out in my mind. I'm finding it so hard to believe because I was very...
Hi S, Protect yourself financially however you can. Get your own accounts in your own name asap. If you can, work the divorce through a third person,like a ...
All those endless lies!!!! When they are caught out its never their fault they have such an uncanny knack to turn it around so that they appear to be the...
Hi, This is how it has gone for me - 7 yrs of marriage - verbal and mental abuse and me not wanting to accept that divorce was the only way. He turned more ...
Are you sure we aren't sisters and possibly married to the same N? My questions also always led to an argument which he didn't want, so therefore, I stopped...
My N husband announced on 5/24 that he rented an apartment and was leaving 7/1. When I said I needed to hire an atty, he tried to dissuade me. Knowing how he...
Hi Rita, I am new to this group as of today. I am living with my N grandma who needed my and my hubbys help to move her. We decided to move in together to help...
honey, your story is MY story. except you left out his screwing my good friend (ha) for a year. No, there is nothing they won't do. I feel like I am living...
Hi Sassy, I have lost count of the number of times i have read "This could be my story" in the posts here. They all seem to work to a pattern, i just wish...
I threw my N husband out 2 weeks ago. He has threatened divorce for 7 months to get his way on big things that SHOULD have been mutual decisions. Lies...
