Hi Paige, I've been hearing about the British Marines in Baghdad. Are Ian and Ross OK? Jenny _________________________________________________________________...
Hi Jenny, Yes thanks for asking. They are with 42 commando in Basra and looks like they are doing a great job with the local community there from the tv...
I would like to share this site with you by way of a thankyou for propping me up when i needed it most. Dont know how i would have got through the last few...
I was married to a narcissistic for 23 years. My divorce was final Friday. I think the most horrible place to be is the spouse of someone like this. I was so...
Thanks for the goose site Paige. Today I feel like I haven't even got the sense of a goose. I have fallen apart and I'm not sure I want to rejoin anything. I...
Hi Jenny.............yes that is how it is for some of us. We have up days and down days that rollercoaster of emotions.............today is a downer for me...
No, he didn't love you and that is not your fault. God didn't make a mistake when He created you. My husband didn't beat me. But I felt for years the same...
Would it be good if G W Bush could deal with these Ns like he has SH???? Honestly how so many can behave in exactly the same way causing the exact same...
Hi Ginger, Congratulation on your divorce becoming final. You are right! To be related to a Narcissist is about the worst place that you can be. I am sorry...
In a message dated 4/16/2003 4:17:37 AM Central Daylight Time, ... Noelene, you may be on to something? Perhaps this is the "smoking gun" Bush has been...
Hi Sylvia, The old, old friend sounds good. I hope he's not another N. I hope your ex won't cause too many problems with this relationship for you, but good...
Thanks. I'm very, very reluctant to go too fast. But I know (almost for sure, because you NEVER know, do you) he isn't a narcissist. This is the first time in...
Hi Sylvia, slowly very slowly sounds safe. Be careful with that trust. Jenny ... Jenny _________________________________________________________________ ...
It would seem like years and years of all of us getting traumaticized by these jerks, we would have developed some type of checklist, or some way of sniffing...
... way of ... He doesn't wear shorts to show off his legs (really, both my exes did) He doesn't throw tantrums at the word "no" His actions speak louder than...
your comment about shorts reminds me of something I saw recently. Boy Scouts: A bunch of boys dressed as jerks, led by a jerk dressed as a boy. Maybe he...
Thanks Jenny, Hannah, and others. The list is looking good. Maybe something we should all have tucked in a pocket when we go out with a new guy. This could...
I was married to an N for 20 years, with him a total of 22. In looking back, I don't think he ever said I love you that wasn't parroted after I said it. He ...
Oh yeah - here are some: 1) You feel drained just being around them. 2) They ask you to do things for them, but there is always an excuse as to why they aren't...
Belinda - listen to me. I have been there. Sleeping too much - it is a direct result of being with your N. They drain your life force, make you feel that You...
Omigod, coralillos. Isn't that the truth. THe one thing we had was good sex. I think that was the one thing he could do to control and keep me, and he knew ...
His Precious girlfriend - yeah, I can relate. Within two weeks of my leaving, he had women in and out, in and out. Finally found one with two young kids from...
ABUSE OF INFORMATION From the first moments of an encounter with another person, the abuser is on the prowl. He collects information. The more he knows about...
Some traits of this list are misleading. My husband did keep his job, for example. But this six added traits are a bleuprint of being married with him - as...
I want to add:7) Has NO sense of humor and is unable to laugh at (him)herself when they done a human boneheaded thing. Actually try to make the bizarre...
ABSOLUTLY RIGHT! Margaret Ashley <blueisland48@...> wrote:I want to add:7) Has NO sense of humor and is unable to laugh at (him)herself when they done a...
Hi Belinda.......sleeping too much is a very common sign of severe depression. 16/18 hours a day is quite common. As you are probably aware there are three...
