I read on the Sam V site that two ways that work in getting the N out of your life are to leave and to give back to the N what he sends to you. This is sort of...
Hi all, Another new member here. Something about me and my situation: about two weeks ago I found out that I have lived for 20 years with an N. I knew and had...
Hi bleu7, I am divorcing after a marriage of 20 years with a man with NPD (probably). He has also GTS (Gilles de la Tourette) what is absolute genetic...
I agree.......hit back with the same force they use. It throws them totally off guard and takes away their control. This morning it got a mail from my N (we...
Welcome Blue7. New here also. Have never thought of N having genetic tendencies, physical diseases, etc. My not-soon-enough-to-be-ex has never been diagnosed...
hello, It's easy to mix up ADHD (attention deficit hyperactivity disorder) and personality disorders. Quite confusing. However, a complete lack of emphaty is...
Hi guys, I am just sitting here readind this and my mind is full of wonder. Mine N was not only MAJOR NPD, but also, ADD, ADHD, OCD. Shish! I would love to ...
Hi all, I agree that the best way is to hit it right back to them. It really does knock them off balance. After my N left ( he dumped me at Disney World) I...
They say it takes a minute to find a special person, and hour to appreciate them, but then an entire life to forget them. Send this phrase to the people you'll...
You are right, family and inlaws (both sides) are in the 4th generation of Ns, and it's going on. It's all the more difficult for the few ones who are healthy...
In a message dated 3/1/2003 6:57:27 PM Central Standard Time, ... I am not a revengeful person in anyway, but I SO understand how very good it feels to one up...
... wonder. Mine N ... love to ... the shape ... again! ... either chose to overlook or simply missed altogether we might have a manual for spotting all thos...
Hi, Wouldn't it be great if we came with an instruction manual for life? Trouble is that most people only use the instruction manual when all else fails. ...
Hi i just wanted to write because today i am a little like the cat who licked the cream!! For 3 years i was the pawn while the King manipulated me around the...
Hi gang, I found this on another site and found it fascinating. It's very long and involved-in fact I haven't read it all ( the link that is) but here it is: ...
Well done! Jenny ... Jenny _________________________________________________________________ Hotmail now available on Australian mobile phones. Go to ...
Hi Therese! Those who have been abused are notorious for not taking good care of themselves! This article recommends two things: Eat a healthy diet Deal with...
In a message dated 3/3/2003 8:54:05 AM Central Standard Time, ... Hi Paige, You so DESERVE this feeling and you know it! Enjoy it, you have earned it. My...
Dear Suzy, Hi! Hope you are very well in every way! :) Sorry to bother you with this but I need your help please. There was a wonderful letter to end a...
Hi Nicky: Is this the letter you are thinking about? --No matter what you may have assumed till now, and no matter for what reason you assumed it, I have no...
In a message dated 3/5/2003 12:27:40 AM Central Standard Time, ... Hi Nicky.. You reminded me of a letter I once found on the web for N's. I love this one....
OMG Suzy!!! How did you DO that!!!??? YES!!! That's the letter!!! HOW did you find it!??? THANK YOU SO MUCH!!! Much appreciated! And so astonishingly quick!...
You're very welcome. I like this particular letter/statement because it is not open ended, it offers nothing whatsoever for the N to dispute or feed into. ...
... Yes, Suzy, it's an excellent closed statement. No bait, no hooks, no arguing, no reasons...just a clean detachment. It's a brilliant short letter. ... ...
Dear Irbr38@, thanks for a letter more like what one might really enjoy flinging at the N...if they had a self to fling it at...LOL Unfortunately, they don't. ...
what is this digest and where to view it? thanks julia ... Do you Yahoo!? Yahoo! Tax Center - forms, calculators, tips, and more [Non-text portions of this...
Dear Angie, I was signing on to cry and whine and reread your post. I think I'm doing just what I need to do. My exlover, minus his sicko psychologist...
Dear Cindy, Don't psychologists have any ethical code re their personal conduct? If a hospital employed psychologist, who also is a professor at a local...
