I'd like to welcome those nearly new members who have just decided to join into the discussion on these pages. I hope that we can help you to feel a little...
Some people have already reported on feeling numb after the toxic relationship has ended. There may be many reasons for that, as all of our experiences are...
I would like to touch on a sensitive matter and I hope you will bear with me and contribute. During the 50's, psychologists wrote about women being frigid! Of ...
Angie - You are a person who epitomizes the spirit of "light at the end of the tunnel." Although the details of your experiences aren't outlined here, it's...
Dear Joy: Thank you for your kind words! Did your experience with that person leave you feeling numb? If so, what ideas can you share with us, which will help...
Angie - As I ended the relationship with my ex-N only two months ago, there are few occasions when I feel like my "old self." Mainly, I work hard at putting...
Hi everyone, A friend just sent this to me,and I think you may all enjoy it WOMAN By the time the Lord made woman, he was into his 6th day of working overtime,...
Dear Joy: You are, indeed, a remarkable woman! Being just two months out of a bad relationship, you are amazingly grounded in reality. Your analysis of the...
Dear friends, It has been a long time, but here I am again! I did need some rest to think on my own. I have had several sessions with my psychiatrist. In the...
Nice to hear you are going OK Sylvia. Regards Jenny ... _________________________________________________________________ MSN 8 helps eliminate e-mail viruses....
Hi Sylvia Thanks so much for the update and am sooo glad to hear that you are doing so well and that YOUR time with the therapist is productive. Congrats on...
Dear Angie, Both your posts, On feeling Numb and The Mona Lisa Smile, blew my mind today! I actually sat at my computer saying "wow" out loud. I'm just AMAZED ...
Hi Suzy, It couldn't last! Yesterday my husband send me an e-mail, an article about how bad divorce is for the children. We are not divorced, just living...
Hi Sylvia, Is there any way that you can bounce his emails back to him, or even just put a block on them? No contact does make a difference, and he wont be...
No, I can't do that. I don't want to cut all contacts off. That wouldn't be a good thing for the children. Now they can judge him themselves. They haven't to...
Oh my God! Sylvia! This is exactly what my brother says! Exactly. 'That's your interpretation.' If I had a nickel for every time he threw that one back at me...
Hi Cindy, Yes, I believe that Sam Vaknin's stuff is worthwhile to read. Just keep in mind while reading he is a malignant N. Suzy ... claiming that ... figure...
Hello Cindy, Sam Vakin's stuff was the first I could find on the net, when I was looking around for information about the behaviour of my husband. It was a...
Hello Roberta? Are you out there? I'm wondering why there are no longer mails of you. I do miss them. Sylvia ... With Yahoo! Mail you can get a bigger mailbox...
hi sorry this isnt Roberta! sylvia vanden Heede <tamcisha@...> wrote: Hello Roberta? Are you out there? I'm wondering why there are no longer mails of...
hi everyone i am new to the group having a month ago come out of an emotionally abusive relationship. Have been left absolutely reeling and numb by it....
Hello you, I'm pretty new in this group too. The mails of other people in a similar situation of mine were very comforting and helpfull to recover. I am still...
Hi Paige, Welcome, Jenny ... Jenny _________________________________________________________________ The new MSN 8: smart spam protection and 2 months FREE* ...
Thanks for taking to trouble to write Sylvia good to know there is light at the end of the tunnel which at the moment seems sooooooo very dark. I wish you and...
Welcome, Paige. A month is not a very long time, but the good news is that you have come out of an emotionally abusive relationship. We've all been there. It...
Hi thankyou for taking the trouble to write it is very much appreciated. I was an abused child of abusive parents and it took me many many years to talk about...
Dear Paige, Don't blame yourself. Learn from it and choose good friends. Good friends are people who give you the feeling you're absolutely okay the way you...
