Greetings: My name is Trish. I have been dating a guy with MPD (DID) for a year and a half now and we have become engaged. He told me right up front that he...
Hi Trish, Thanks so much for joining. Since my wife had passed away, I have not done much with the group and you will probably find some spam on the messages....
Hi Trish, I found out my wife had DID 8 years in to our marriage. It is not easy. I first I thought it was under control.. I was wrong. Anthony From:...
HI Trish, I am not a spouse, but a very good friend of somone with DID. I am close to many of her parts and I know how difficult it can be. I just a read a...
Would you mind elaborating on your post a bit, please? My fiance and I (and his alters) talk ALOT, though I mainly talk to the main one that is out most of the...
Thanks for this. He has been sending me really helpful Internet website, giving me books, purchasing books, etc. I've met his doctors, he's given me full...
Hi Mark, Thanks for that info. It was one of the first books I read and one of the most informative for a lay person. I would recommend it to anyone wanting...
Yes. Diane had a therapist while in the hospital who said she would not speak to the alters and only worked with Diane. And we saw a therapist for couples...
Hello My name is Nathan and I have been dating a wondeful woman for 13 months now. About five months ago I noticed little changes but dismissed it thought she...
Hi, If her defender is saying what you said then you should be ok with her i would think you will have ones all the time that are not going to be friendly to...
Hi Thank you for your comment. I am not sure what you meant by do you know whom it was that you fell for? When we met I did not know she had DID but knew there...
Hi Nate; One of the 'older' resident multiples here....don't post much, but read most everything. I can hear your frustration and confusion - sorry you're...
Nathan, I have no idea your position regarding age, other opportunities, children, finances etc. so it is rather presumptive of me to even offer an answer....
Hi Thea I am 39 years old and have two kids and she has three of her own. They do not know there mom has DID nor does her family know. Personally I dont think...
Nathan, Sorry my wisdom, is not more encouraging but the truth is, most relationships do not survive DID. If she listens at all encourage her to work with a...
I could not agree with Thea more. My spouse (now ex, due to her angry alters) ravaged our kids college funds and spent the money on drugs, had myriads of...
John, thanks for the support of my words. I love my husband and hope to see him at his best sometime in the near future. We survive as a family only on...
Gail, Hi, I am new here in the group but wanted you to have more than just one response to your question. It sounds to me like your S/O is still very...
Hi everyone! I'm a newbie here. Just wanted to get this out of the way don't have any idea what is expected as an intro so I'll just say this... My name is...
Hi Pandora and the Collective, welcome to the group I am also D.I.D too and so is my partner we are both so Life is interesting to say the lest and this group...
Gail, My name is Brigid, and I am very new to the group. I have been with my SO for ten years. She has just been diagnosed in the last year, but i have been...
Okay,I've got a situation going on with my SO that I could really use some opinions on. My SO's system consists of 13 alters (including the body) that range in...
Hey Joe, Her DID was caused by extreme physical and sexual abuse from age 2-14....We've been working on it today, and I think that the host is angry at alters...
Hi Brigid, that then could be something that happened as a child in the abuse or something that made her think that she had " she has a black hole in her...
The email and attachment below were forwarded on to me by a senior US colleague today. It concerns an invitation to join a petition and to collectively "lobby"...