Hello everyone I am married to a lovely woman with mutiples . I really need help here I am at a lost , some of the personalities do not like me very much and...
Hi Jon - Welcome to the group. I'm very sorry for what you're going through; I'm glad you're talking here and hope that you continue to do so, if it helps....
... really ... I hear you Jon, it's a tough road at times. My girl is only now accepting her Dx and learning to map her system. She has no therapist,just books...
In a message dated 11/25/2006 8:37:16 AM Pacific Standard Time, ... Hi Rick; I guess we're the unofficial resident multiple system here, at least at this ...
Hi, My husband has DID. Looking for support. Unfortunately he had a five year affair with a coworker that appears to be a reenactment of his childhood abuse...
Hello my name is Brett and my girlfriend has DID. When I was a child I was abused. My mother was an alcoholic and her lover had 26 personalities. Growing up I...
In a message dated 11/27/2006 7:41:54 PM Pacific Standard Time, ... Welcome to the group, Brett. Glad you're here. Thank you for opening up and sharing some...
This would be a lot easier if it could be an in-person thing... I would very much like to be connected with people who also have experience living with a...
Hello Carolyn and welcome; Thank you for sharing some of your story. Keep writing as it helps to do so. Jen et al. [Non-text portions of this message have...
Hi Carolyn, I am new to this group and this is my 1st post. I just want you to know that I can totally relate. I have been in a relationship for 24 years...
Thank you, Gail and Jen et al. for replying... In the past year and a half or so, I have been doing a lot of reading in academic journals and so forth....
As I read these posts, I can't help feeling a bit envious of the openess you all seem to experience within your SO's system. I have been with my SO for 24...
Hi Carolyn; Thanks for your writing and sharing. It takes courage to do so, we know. I/we are the 'resident multiple' here it seems, at least by default if ...
Actually, it never would have been this way between my husband and I -- never -- if I hadn't been blessed (really) to have had the experience of growing up...
I did seek therapy -- or at least an ear to listen -- several times... My first interaction with a therapist was disasterous... It was a "group" for people...
I got an email from my husband this morning telling me he's been talking to somebody (lawyer?) about divorce paperwork... We've been separated for a year and...
... I hear your pain and frustration. You are not alone, that much you can be sure of. My fiancee and I are living apart due to the strain between her and her...
Greetings: My name is Trish. I have been dating a guy with MPD (DID) for a year and a half now and we have become engaged. He told me right up front that he...
Hi Trish, Thanks so much for joining. Since my wife had passed away, I have not done much with the group and you will probably find some spam on the messages....
Hi Trish, I found out my wife had DID 8 years in to our marriage. It is not easy. I first I thought it was under control.. I was wrong. Anthony From:...
HI Trish, I am not a spouse, but a very good friend of somone with DID. I am close to many of her parts and I know how difficult it can be. I just a read a...
Would you mind elaborating on your post a bit, please? My fiance and I (and his alters) talk ALOT, though I mainly talk to the main one that is out most of the...
Thanks for this. He has been sending me really helpful Internet website, giving me books, purchasing books, etc. I've met his doctors, he's given me full...
Hi Mark, Thanks for that info. It was one of the first books I read and one of the most informative for a lay person. I would recommend it to anyone wanting...
Yes. Diane had a therapist while in the hospital who said she would not speak to the alters and only worked with Diane. And we saw a therapist for couples...
Hello My name is Nathan and I have been dating a wondeful woman for 13 months now. About five months ago I noticed little changes but dismissed it thought she...
Hi, If her defender is saying what you said then you should be ok with her i would think you will have ones all the time that are not going to be friendly to...
Hi Thank you for your comment. I am not sure what you meant by do you know whom it was that you fell for? When we met I did not know she had DID but knew there...