Hello
My name is Nathan and I have been dating a wondeful woman for 13
months now. About five months ago I noticed little changes but
dismissed it thought she was just being nervous. I had a few things
happen that made me begin to think about all the little things I
saw. I started reading everybook I could get my hands on until I
finally put the puzzle together. It has not been easy for her and I
could never figure that out. I could tell she wanted and enjoyed
very much being with me but I noticed at times when I looked into
her eyes that there was something different. It has taken me awhile
and waiting for the right time to ask if she had DID. Once I did it
through her system into a state of panic. Its been a month now since
I have talked with her but have had many encounters with her alters.
Everything from get lost buddy to your nice but it would be better
if you just forgot about her. If I had not known and she said these
things I would have been deeply hurt but thank god I knew what was
going on. She did tell me that night she said yes to DID that no one
in her family knows not even her three kids and that I was not to
tell anyone. Then her alter Kim showed up (the protector) and said a
few nice words to me. I care so much about her and it hurts to know
she is going through this alone. She claims she is seeing a
therapist but to be honest I really dont know. Her daughter is mad
at me because she thinks I hurt her which I dont. I am just
overwhelmed and I hope one day she will come back.

nate