--- In mpdspouses@yahoogroups.com, "jonbelew" <jonbelew@...> wrote:
>
> Hello everyone I am married to a lovely woman with mutiples . I
really
> need help here I am at a lost , some of the personalities do not like
> me very much and some not at all . I have a new one living with me
> that I have not met in the last 6 years we have been together . This
> is the first one that didnt have shared memory of the children (that
> she has from a previous marriage)me or her parents at all,BTW her
> parents are still living. I do know how to handle this . I feel as if
> I am losing my sanity at times. I have no one to speak to about this.
> I love her very much, but i feel like maybe this personality is here
> to leave .
> Help me please
> Jon
>
I hear you Jon, it's a tough road at times. My girl is only now
accepting her Dx and learning to map her system. She has no
therapist,just books I've bought her and articles I've printed from
websites. I do know what it's like not to have anyone to talk to. there
are no local groups I've found, and family is not an option since I'm
the only one she has disclosed to. Sounds like you need a therapist for
both of you. I wish I had more help to offer, but it does sound like we
are in similar circumstances. All I can say is that I know her and I
truly love each other because we just don't give up,we survive...

Rick
Norman,OK