To all;

My Jeffrey has finally came out and told me
somethings. I wrote him like some of you have
suggested and it worked my Jeffrey came out but then
he switched evenually right in front of me. We worked
some things out. I after awhile agreed with the
divorce because I figured that it would help him in
his mental problems but I now feel like I'm
sacrificing again myself to help him. This is one of
those darned if you do and darned if you don't kind of
things. Any ways. My Jeffrey tells me that he agreed
in the letter that I wrote when I said that he was in
denial about a lot of things and then he went into the
things he was in denial about. His mental problems he
agreed were a BIG part of it. And that his mental
problems are the reason why are relationship has been
in a tail spin. He said to me that he really is
working real hard on getting his mental problems in
check that he is figuring things out about his
personalities. He said that he is real glad that he
and I going to stay friends after the divorce and that
if the time comes that him and I are to be together
that we will be able to tell. He agreed with me on
that and more. I am scared that he isn't serious and
that he is just trying to butter me up. Why I don't
understand. Maybe it's a coping mechinism for him to
keep me at the waist side just in case. But how is
someone like me that loves him so much and he finally
admits to me that he still loves me back suppose to
cope with being a back-up person? And is ANY of this a
good thing? Does it sound like improvement somewhat
for him and hope for him and I? Or am I again wishful
thinking? Please write me back ASAP. Thanks all.

Sincerely,
Elizabeth

P.S
Something else that's important. He said that he was
really really relaxed when he laid down on the couch.
He was here to visit our daughter and he could bearly
keep his eyes open because he had slipped and fell and
hit his head on the concrete outside when he was
walking to his car when he was at work. He said that
hehadn't felt this relaxed in a very long time. He
said that he felt comfortable and relaxed. He also
said to me over the phone after he left and I had
called him about something that he was tempted on
walking over to me and starting to kiss me and hold me
like he use to do. What does that mean? Is it VERY
good? or just good? Oor again am I just wishful
thinking?

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