Hi Mary,

I'm new to this site and I am so glad I found it!

My name is Paul and my wife has DID. I think she might be at a point of
intigretion, but i'm not shure. She told me that she feels as though she awoke
from a "coma" and she is a differant person and not the one I married. She said
this happened last fall and since then our relationship has fallen apart. Last
week she filed for divorce!? I have been there for her through it all and I
wish I had found this group sooner. I have done alot of research about DID, to
a point I could probibly write a paper about my experiances. This is the
darkest point of my life for I love her dearly and never expected this to
happen.

We began marriage counciling last fall but after about six visits she could not
take it anymore and wanted to stop. She would get very angry when I would
express my feelings and told me "I just didn't get it" but could't tell my what
I didn't get when I asked her. She tells me she that I am more of a "Father"
figure to her than a Husband? Now she doesn't even want to try to repair our
marrage of 25 years. This is also ripping apart my boy's, I have three ages
22,20 and 13. I am really trying to hold it together but God its hard. I dont'
want to give up because she is a beuitiful person, and I know this just isn't
her. I have called her therapyst but she has not got back to me yet.

I need so help. Thanks for listening.

Paul
rollpsych2001 <no_reply@yahoogroups.com> wrote:
Hi! I'm Mary. My husband and I are old groupies here and have been
inactive for some time. Anyway, we are back and want to help all we
can. I am a multiple and I also just graduated from college with a BA
in Psychology. My husband has done a great deal of studying about DID
with me and he knows all of the alters, their needs, what works and
doesnt work with them, etc. I have been in therapy for 11yrs and
pretty much know a lot about the different things to deal with. Also,
my husband has attended therapy with me a great deal so he knows a
lot about what's going on too. Actually, he knows more than anyone
I've met who doesnt have a degree. I am finally at the point of
integration. We want to let everyone know that we would be MORE than
happy to answer any questions/concerns you might have. My husband
would also like to talk to any spouses/SO's who would care to talk to
him. He can only receive messages by email because he checks these at
work etc a lot of the times. His email address is:
gallantrocket@.... Mine is rollpsych2001@.... I will
also be checking the messageboard and I also dont mind being IM'd if
you see me online. Thanks and hope to talk to all of you soon.
Mary and Jeff


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