Hello Pauline!
Boy have we been there/done that!!!! My husband knows what you are
going through because of my sexual alter. She would be all over the
place having sex with men but Jeff has talked to her and she has
never even once cheated on him. You really need to talk to him about
this. He cant come on the site much because he doesnt have much time
to but he checks his emails regularly (sometimes from work) so he can
email you back...he knows SO MUCH about DID since being with me. He
can and would be glad to help you. And I wouldnt mind talking to your
husband or his alters if he'd like. My email is
rollpsych2001@... and Jeff's is gallantrocket@....
We hope to hear from you soon.
Mary











--- In mpdspouses@yahoogroups.com, "alienette_01" <pauly_r2@h...>
wrote:
> I am looking forward to getting to know you all. I live in
> Melbourne Australia. I am married to a DID sufferer, been together
> for 17years. He sees a terapist who we both trust and he is
> intergrating, we are both finding it extremely difficult. I am
> married to the host persona, his main active alter is a younger
> single sexually active male and I am his mother. I only found out
I
> was his mother a month or so ago. It must be terrible sorting all
> this out in his head. He has many protectors around this younger
> persona. It must be very comfortable for him though having the best
> of two worlds, I think this is hard for him to give up.
> Fortunately, he wants it all to go away and get on with our life.
> My self esteem is low because he has been having affairs with woman
> half my age, and I feel he is only here for security. We are just
> taking things one day at a time, and seeing how everything balances
> out. Take care all, cheers Pauline