Hi! My name is Mary and I am a multiple. My husband's name is Jeff.
He knows SOOO much about DID. He knows all of my alters and what they
need etc. It has been VERY rocky because he had to deal with my angry
alters too. He can help you with this so much. He has went to therapy
with me and I have my BA in Psych and I am learning a lot as well. He
doesnt have a degree or anything but he is the most
intelligent/patient man I have ever known. He is so observant, he can
just look into my eyes and see different alters (and he knows who
they are even) pass by. I know he can help you tremendously. I dont
know if he can come on this site very often but he does check his
emails regularly (a lot of times from work, which is why its easier
to email him.) Please, please send him an email and talk to him... he
can help you. His email is gallantrocket@.... I would also be
more than willing to talk to your husband. My email is
rollpsych2001@.... I hope we can help you...HANG IN THERE!
(Also feel free to IM me if you see me online.
Mary








--- In mpdspouses@yahoogroups.com, "ohsobjork" <ohsobjork@a...> wrote:
> I have come here because I think my partner has DID. We have a
friend
> who is a therapist who specialises in this field who first noticed
my
> partners behaviour. She has spoken to him about it but he is in
> denial, although sometimes will disclose things to me but I know
now
> that there is no point me trying to expand on this because that
> person quickly goes away. My difficulty is with some of the
> adolescent angry ones (I think there is about 2 maybe 3) they seem
to
> hate me and its these distructive ones which make me question my
> relationship. Basically we have got back together after another
split
> and really I so want to be able to live with this and support him
> because I love him dearly and he loves me. Thats why I have looked
> for I site I could talk to someone on, he is not diagnosed and I
> could not tell him about this, he has said quite recently that its
> the horrible one I need to like the most and I know this is true
but
> is hard and some days I think `I do not have to live like this`.
Most
> of the time my partner is great but these spells are more common
the
> longer we know eachother and when there is increased stress. I
> suppose my biggest concern is that evey time I really need support
or
> something stressful is happening for me I get the angry one/s who I
> then respond to negatively and it all goes pear-shaped! I dont know
I
> think I am waffling so I am sorry. He did start therapy last year
but
> soon stopped as he was not ready and I know that now. Its just so
> unfair he is such a lovely person who is in such turmoil at times
it
> really hurts, thanks for listening