Hi...I'm Mary...please hang in there! Help is here!! I am a multiple
and my husband Jeff is the most wonderful man I've ever met and he
knows how to deal with me and my alters. He would be glad to talk to
you about this and what he thinks and what you can do. I will pass
your message on to him and have him email you ok? His email is
gallantrocket@.... Please talk to him...he's the most
intelligent/patient man I've ever known and he knows SO MUCH about
multiples....!
Mary









--- In mpdspouses@yahoogroups.com, sufia_j@y... wrote:
> What do you do when you just can't stand it anymore? I mean, I've
> really, really had enough. And the worst part is that I can't talk
> to anyone about it; nobody here knows about his DID.
>
> Twice yesterday he told our daughter, "I'm not Daddy." She's four
> years old. She shouldn't have to deal with this. And that's just
> the tip of the iceberg. He's ONCE AGAIN changing our life plans
and
> wanting to move (read: escape) to another city. Well, I'm not
doing
> it again. I'm just not. I've put up with this for fourteen
years.
> Now I'm putting my foot down. If he needs to go, he can go. But
> we're staying here.
>
> And everything is my fault according to him. If I point out how
he's
> being irrational, I'm standing in his way. I'm the source of all
his
> problems. I'm the bad guy if I don't jump at every crazy plan he
> comes up with--and he comes up with a new one just about every
week.
> Do you know how many job changes and moves I've supported him in?
I
> don't know; I've actually lost count. But there are times when
he's
> just not making any sense and I *have* to say no, right? He's got
me
> so confused I don't know what's right and wrong, what's reasonable
or
> crazy anymore. I wish we had some neutral person we could talk
this
> all out with.
>
> I really wish he was in therapy. Do you think there's any way I
> could convince him to get back in therapy?
>
> All I know is that I can't take this anymore.
>
> Thanks for listening. I know I've been rambling, but I'm too upset
> and stressed-out to make much sense at the moment. I think I need
to
> get away for a while.
>
> Peace,
>
> Sufia