I have come here because I think my partner has DID. We have a friend
who is a therapist who specialises in this field who first noticed my
partners behaviour. She has spoken to him about it but he is in
denial, although sometimes will disclose things to me but I know now
that there is no point me trying to expand on this because that
person quickly goes away. My difficulty is with some of the
adolescent angry ones (I think there is about 2 maybe 3) they seem to
hate me and its these distructive ones which make me question my
relationship. Basically we have got back together after another split
and really I so want to be able to live with this and support him
because I love him dearly and he loves me. Thats why I have looked
for I site I could talk to someone on, he is not diagnosed and I
could not tell him about this, he has said quite recently that its
the horrible one I need to like the most and I know this is true but
is hard and some days I think `I do not have to live like this`. Most
of the time my partner is great but these spells are more common the
longer we know eachother and when there is increased stress. I
suppose my biggest concern is that evey time I really need support or
something stressful is happening for me I get the angry one/s who I
then respond to negatively and it all goes pear-shaped! I dont know I
think I am waffling so I am sorry. He did start therapy last year but
soon stopped as he was not ready and I know that now. Its just so
unfair he is such a lovely person who is in such turmoil at times it
really hurts, thanks for listening