I am looking forward to getting to know you all. I live in
Melbourne Australia. I am married to a DID sufferer, been together
for 17years. He sees a terapist who we both trust and he is
intergrating, we are both finding it extremely difficult. I am
married to the host persona, his main active alter is a younger
single sexually active male and I am his mother. I only found out I
was his mother a month or so ago. It must be terrible sorting all
this out in his head. He has many protectors around this younger
persona. It must be very comfortable for him though having the best
of two worlds, I think this is hard for him to give up.
Fortunately, he wants it all to go away and get on with our life.
My self esteem is low because he has been having affairs with woman
half my age, and I feel he is only here for security. We are just
taking things one day at a time, and seeing how everything balances
out. Take care all, cheers Pauline