John,
Sorry, I called you matt. I read your E-mail and burst LOL. Every line brought
back memory's. The disappearing act can really get old quick. One night we went
to pick up a car and she hopped in and took off. Didn't here from her for 8 hrs
or more. got a call from one of her child alters that she had gassed up then
disappeared. Left a child out, no money and scarred to death. had to drive to
were she was and pay the bill. I quickly made some cards for the kid's to hand
out with my phone # if it happened again. John, have any child alters presented
themselves yet? If your wife had an (traumatic event) as a youngster then she
should have young alters. I feel they are key to my getting along with alters.
My wife's won't come out if the body is really hurting or if they are suicidal.
Once after a suicide attempt I thought real hard about letting her go. I didn't
and she spent a week in ICU. Hard on the family!
My wife plays the mom roll really good also. My youngest daughter hates it.
calls it faked. Lately she says maybe its OK. You ask, love life? No! both our
faults. Having sex with a child, not my bag. Also doing it with a dominating Bi.
is not fun ether. My partner left when the kids were born. Now we are good
friends and all the little ones are learning they are safe in our house. Outside
is another story. The Girls are adults now and don't like the woman who lives
with us but are forgiving the past. I think. LOL.

Hope things get better,
Mike
>
> MIke, for several months now my wife has been mostly
> just one or two alters that I can tell. She goies
> away for several days at a time and never contacts me
> or the kids. its hard on them/ then she reappears on
> puts on a supermom act. yes, seh refuses all help.
> but my boys and I are in therapy. both my therapist
> the boys' are conviced my ex is DID and I think the
> evidence is conclusive now. I saw a lot of drug use
> for a while and we had scary calls from dealers to the
> house for a bit but that seems to have gone away.
>
> I think I was like you, lived with switching but never
> knew it until things became extreme. frankly, at
> times I wish she would just melt down or become so
> extremem that something had to be done. its hard on
> the kids and I to be caught in limbo like this. Im
> just surprised she is able to play the mom rool as
> long as she has been withouth switching out around the
> kids. time will tell.
>
> is your wife loving towards you now? what is live
> life like and how are your kids about things now?
>
>
> cheers,
>
>
> john
>
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