Hi Matt, No proublem sharing. I'll try to answer your questions in
order.For the last 10 years my wife has been in therapy. for the
last 7 we have had a house guest who also is DID. When things get
rockey the two can help each other. About our first 5 years, Yes
there were alters. I was just unaware, If I had been we would not
have had children. It was very hard on them. My wife was diagnosed
10 yrs ago approx. The kids were raised by then. I think our
fighting and her mood changes were hard on them. They were taken
good care of otherwise. Yes my wife has teenage alters. One is a
hand full, Smokes-drinks- and is bi-sexual.could write a book on
that one.lol. You say your wife won't go to therapy! You and your
children could benefit from it.
Good luck,
Mike--- In mpdspouses@yahoogroups.com, John McPherson
<slimpoint@y...> wrote:
> Mike, thanks for dropping me a line. wha has become
> of your wife? was she consistently one alter for 5
> years? no switching at all? and how have things been
> for your kids?
>
> this is a nightmare. we had 10 great years, 3 good,
> then craziness the last few. I still have a tough
> time absorbing this all, how the person I love could
> disappear inside her own body. worry abbout my kids
> ll the time, bit dont know what I can do at this
> point. she is doing ok taking care of them when she
> has them. did your wife have an lesbian behavior?
> that was a big issue here a lot of acting out, that
> others here have suggested was a teenage alter. angry
> and rebellious, listenedto hip hop music all the time,
> obsessed with how she looked. its just all so
> bizarre.
> ]
> Id like to hear more about your story of you care to
> share it.
>
> cheers,
>
>
> matt
>
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